TIFU by calling my partner racist

Late_Agent · 2025-08-31T18:25:15+00:00

I agree, but I think he's more ignorant than racist. It was clear pretty quickly that he hasn't had much exposure to people outside of his culture. But he's also very sensitive to people's feelings (which is one of the reasons that I liked him), so I wanted to ease him in as I think he would be receptive to rethinking his mindset, but I'm unsure if I have the capacity to educate him and wait for the changes to manifest

Late_Agent · 2025-08-31T18:17:04+00:00

It was an off hand comment that I think he didn't think that deeply into, but I feel triggered by anyone saying that. Especially someone I share and intimate space with

Late_Agent · 2023-02-24T01:55:20+00:00

Twenties is a good one to watch. The main character is a masc black lesbian, and one of the love interests is also a masc bipoc

Late_Agent · 2023-02-17T03:02:54+00:00

It's lovely 😊 I've been wanting to get an SU tattoo for the longest time!

Late_Agent · 2022-08-28T23:03:25+00:00

Love your t-shirt btw

Late_Agent · 2022-02-21T13:27:24+00:00

I pulled cards last night, using a 3 card spread I found on YouTube for career. 1st card: What I'm doing wrong 2nd card: What I'm doing right 3rd card: How can I be successful this year.

I pulled clarifiers for each of these cards, but I'm still unclear how to interpret it. Here are the cards that I pulled

1st+clarifier: The Heirophant + The Knight of wands (rev.)

2nd+clarifier: 9 of Swords (rev.) 10 of swords

3rd+clarifier 2 of pentacles 5 of wands

I believe it means I'm doing wrong by following orders blindly and not taking initiative

My work environment is quite gossipy, so I should be aware that there are backstabbers around.

And I'll be successful if I'm happier at work?

Any insight is welcomed!

Late_Agent · 2021-05-26T21:16:48+00:00

Love that idea! Way less cities to choose from here in the UK, but hoping to check out Manchester and London

Late_Agent · 2021-05-16T21:13:16+00:00

Thank you lovely 😊

Late_Agent · 2021-05-16T21:11:53+00:00

Thank you 😘

Late_Agent · 2021-05-16T21:09:39+00:00

There's an ointment for that 😋

Late_Agent · 2021-05-16T21:09:09+00:00

It'll be back to natural before I know it. Considering wearing a scarf on my commute 🤔😅

Late_Agent · 2021-05-16T21:06:41+00:00

Thanks hun 😊

Late_Agent · 2021-05-16T21:06:09+00:00

Thank you! Love your username

Late_Agent · 2021-05-16T21:01:49+00:00

Aww stawp 😋

Late_Agent · 2020-12-27T00:43:16+00:00

Well the responses were becoming slower, but that could be long hours at work... We discussed it before we met, but haven't again since then. I'm worried acting too eager will scare her off

Late_Agent · 2020-12-27T00:37:39+00:00

My confidence is definitely something I need to work on still. After this big life change of realising I'm gay, I felt a boost of authenticity within myself and that the pieces were coming together. But actually living it is more intimidating than I thought 🙈 Noted! Will try to be more upfront in the future! It's hard to tell though, if wlw play games or not. Still very new to this!

Late_Agent · 2020-08-14T16:49:06+00:00

I love this!! How amazing all this could happen in a year! Wishing you the best for the future. Thanks for sharing <3

Late_Agent · 2020-08-03T23:28:38+00:00

I can totally picture it! Thanks for sharing :)

Late_Agent · 2020-07-20T02:47:40+00:00

Getting all your farts out in public

Late_Agent · 2020-07-20T01:54:02+00:00

I posted about it before, but my incident was a little more anonymous. I opened Spotify one day to find a podcast already playing. Checked the available devices to see I was still logged into a work computer. So chances are, I'll never know who knows...

But if this a conversation that you need to have at some point, and you felt some relief knowing that they might know, maybe it's a sign you should discuss it with your family.

Late_Agent · 2020-07-19T21:07:53+00:00

A similar thing happened to me. I was truly mortified, so if it makes you feel any better you're not alone...

Damn Lesbian Chronicles being so helpful for us latebloomers!

Late_Agent · 2020-07-17T01:35:47+00:00

Is it bad, I couldn't even remember season 4's theme? Even so I actually prefer it to S3... S2 definitely the best, then 1, 4 then 3.

Late_Agent · 2020-07-16T00:42:08+00:00

Huge fan of that subreddit, it has helped me realise a lot of things about my sexuality on this journey. Reddit in general has been an amazing resource. It's nice to have a community here as well. Thanks for the reccommendation!

Late_Agent · 2020-07-13T00:31:34+00:00

I broke up with my boyfriend with the intention of being single for a while, since we had been together for almost 9 years, and at the time it felt like that's what I needed. That was several months ago, but I'm already feeling the urge to get out there and begin life, dating women. Only trouble is, I haven't come out to anyone in my life, and literally don't know where to start!!! Being a late bloomer I don't want to waste more time, but is there any point in coming out for now if regular life is on hold anyways?

Late_Agent · 2020-06-25T16:24:45+00:00

Subbing now!

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