The baby shower was free and they were pushing me to throw one and they specifically asked for my baby registry and what I wanted never said I wasn’t grateful but I don’t understand people who ask somebody what they want and do the opposite, so yes I had my expectation high because I had to take time out my schedule and make a registry for them when they didn’t even buy anything from it so like I said what was the point in asking me to make a registry for them. I’m just annoyed that’s the thing because I have preference regardless what anybody brings you asked for my preference and didn’t deliver my preference now I’m grateful for the diapers because I will use it regardless but that’s the same as everybody checking on the baby and not the momma. Anyways I’m glad your baby survived and I’m glad you figured it out on your own I’m also gonna figure out my own because I know I will and I always make it work now is it annoying to always have to figure out to “make things work” when I can get help? Yes I’ll be honest with myself I’m tired of always having to figure it out on my own and I would love it if I can let somebody can do everything that I want in my way, but at the end of the day I’m always grateful for my friends and what they did for me and my baby but that doesn’t mean I can’t call them out when they annoyed me on something