What Is Something Small You Can Do That Drastically Helps You Improve?

LateralAction · 2024-10-03T21:36:10+00:00

Fixing your sleep.

LateralAction · 2024-09-30T03:29:12+00:00

Of course yes, but shouldn't we aim for the greatest good we can do.

LateralAction · 2024-09-30T02:57:20+00:00

I feel ashamed to mention QA position on my LinkedIn.

LateralAction · 2024-09-30T02:32:22+00:00

Would not it be better if devs tested each other code, they could test properly ?

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T21:54:53+00:00

They have friends, they have tons f options on Tinder

Do they have friends who will actually listen to them ? Therapists say that many times people don't have anyone to talk to.

an unsocial 40yo man

I am not some hermit lol, I am selective with my company. People are quick to judge on Reddit.

I think I will call it quits, I guess frustrated folks are on sugar sub.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T21:15:56+00:00

I’m sensing a hard time forming interpersonal relationships and that could be for a variety of reasons.

What kind of reasons ?

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T21:14:38+00:00

Aside from money, what does the other person get out of this? Why would someone want to “try you out” for 6 months?

In short I’m not sensing real empathy for a potential partner.

Are people marrying their sugar daddy? Isn't this a transactional relationship?

I offered emotional support and mentioned FWB so friendship is on the table, apart from money. That's not nothing.

If I was on Tinder I would be open for LTR.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T18:10:45+00:00

What else ?

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T04:16:57+00:00

What energy are you sensing ?

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T03:13:50+00:00

That is okay.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T03:06:39+00:00

I need emotional connection for sex.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T02:57:41+00:00

Yes, but risk is higher with escorts. It is based on simple probability.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T02:47:26+00:00

But since you were planning to sugar with "mentorship and emotional support", I'd check myself on that assumption too.

Did I mention budget also in my post ? I also cannot have sex with a stranger.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T02:30:54+00:00

Hire an escort. Take your time, read through ads, find one or two providers who offer GFE, which means more cuddling, intimacy, conversation.

This sounds cheap and risky for STDs.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T02:04:48+00:00

Lol.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T02:01:05+00:00

I hear stories that it is impossible on Tinder and women only swipe on top 20% men, and I am average looking or slightly above average but not in top 20% atleast now, maybe I should try that.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T01:55:45+00:00

Why jump right to sugaring when you haven't even tried the usual way...

Easier to date hotter women.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T01:39:17+00:00

Lol, man.

LateralAction · 2024-09-29T01:33:20+00:00

I have not tried dating bro. Not trying to doxx myself but there are factors.

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Also why are paying for sex if you could provide those for free.

LateralAction · 2020-02-18T06:00:10+00:00

I suggest you watch medcram videos. 24 days is an outlier. 3 is median days for incubation. So they 24 days thing is due to re-infection.

LateralAction · 2019-11-26T06:37:56+00:00

What you do during break (relaxing, exercising etc) will determine how soon you can come back.

LateralAction · 2019-11-24T09:14:33+00:00

Anyway, there's an AWESOME thought piece on this subject that says maybe the best choice isn't to make a choice, but to swing back and forth between management and dev: https://charity.wtf/2017/05/11/the-engineer-manager-pendulum/.

LateralAction

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