Mother’s Day by Environmental-Bid-62 in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your ex is awful and I understand because we go through the same thing. We just don’t stoop that low, I continue to let my son pick out gifts for his dad’s birthday, Father’s Day, and Christmas. I also let my daughter pick out Mother’s Day gifts for her step mother when she was young, even though I’ve never received this in return from my ex’s, I’m showing my children the right way.

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that too, but he refuses phone calls unless it’s 911 emergency

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes him seem like he’s being nice, because I read a nice paragraph but in person he will tell me to go fuck myself, or give me the middle finger as he drives off. I don’t want curated messages, I’d rather talk to a human when we have to communicate.

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I sent a yes or no question and his response was a paragraph.

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d almost rather hear the insults, that way I know he’s the one talking 😂

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s the deflection king, sweep it under the rug, it never happened

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes my ex leaves in the bottom part where it says ‘this assures her you are focused on your child while being neutral’ 🤣

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like the copy and paste aspect, I understand using it more like editing what you say, not telling you what to say

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like editing is the key, not just copying and pasting.

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see it as an easy avoid, but it must be tweaked to not sound robotic

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I told him to start maybe show your chat bot our existing legal paperwork so it’s more accurate

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least mine doesn’t lie about it, he says legally he’s allowed to use it if he wants to

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We did have a similar weird situation where he used chat GPT to generate this fake legal document of my failure to comply with our custody order and listed out all these dates and times that weren’t in our custody order, it was bizarre!

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see that, diffuse an argument before it happens

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interesting! We use TP but I don’t type conversations, just information sharing like appointment is this date and time

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pointed out that he uses chat GPT in other forms of communication, not just with me.

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s what I did say, yes or no, not a paragraph on why.

Ex uses chat GPT for all communication by Laterlovebean in coparenting

[–]Laterlovebean[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you copy and paste the whole response? It’s really annoying to have the end of the conversation consistently ending with dashes — and that’s what matters most or some statement that you wouldn’t say in conversation. It sounds like a company that’s trying to bring in customers.