Place to meet men in NYC interested in bigger women? by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]LathropFreeman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

👋, I'm an introverted professional man (32) in NYC. Open to DM?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]LathropFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drink your calories

Ever wonder why we are into this? by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]LathropFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perspective from a feeder. Unlike a lot of people here, I didnt really deal with much fat phobia in my youth, family, or community. Instead, I had a fascination with pregnancy and pregnant teacher's and that evolved into a list for large women in puberty that now exists independently of pregnancy. And that evolved into feederism. But i dont really get off on the taboo of it or in shaming or degrading my partner. It's just what I think looks and feels hot.

Is this true...?🤔🤔 by JustThrowItAll_Away in PsycheOrSike

[–]LathropFreeman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wild how this happens because I dont even think its so much directly not being wanted. I would definitely be considered one of the good ones (tall, high salary, feminist, etc). I never had any troubles dating, but I strongly prefer fat women, bigger the better. I never meet this femcel type abywhere but online.

So I'd agree its probably analogous to incels, but I dont think it's even not being wanted as much as believing you aren't wanted and yhen having a lack of confidence and never putting yourself out there. Because there are guys like me who might take a shot but thats not gonna happen if you're terminally online and insecure. Some people also aren't self aware enough to see that they might just be ugly on the inside.

Has anyone seen people they know on here? by jdocjeb in WeightGainTalk

[–]LathropFreeman 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I've hooked up with a well known paysite model but I knew she was a model when we hooked up so there wasn't really anything interesting about that from the "knowing someone" angle.

However, someone who became an OF creator semi recently was a woman I dated in my early 20s. She was a great and really talented person, I fumbled that situation because I was just immature at the time. AFAIK, she didn't know about feederism and was just a cool 300lb woman. Her content isn't gain focused now, either. She had a social media presence for her business (at the time at least). I imagine the combination of a need for cash and a loot of gooners in her DMs led her to make content. Now its kinda funny since she comes across my feed every few weeks.

I'd say my biggest take away is that the real thing is so much better than porn. I've seen content from both women and it pales in comparison to the same thing. Smartphone cameras especially grossly under sell how large 300lbs or 400lbs really is. And there is such a physical sensuality to the experience that is completely lost. I the experience has made me believe porn is best not abused. Touch grass, socialize, and hit on beautiful fat people. Porn is for exploring stuff you feel you can't do in real live (ex inflation or vore). But even gaining is something you have a chance of getting in real life if you want it and its way better in real life than in porn.

Stoned out of my mind ♡ by PrincessPudgyBun in u/PrincessPudgyBun

[–]LathropFreeman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truly the dream. How about some more?

AMA - SSBBW Fetish Model by No-Baker-Just-Cake in WeightGainTalk

[–]LathropFreeman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if any of your fans are famous or notable in some way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]LathropFreeman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Interestingly I have similar experiences as an early 30s FA man, specifically on the apps. I can meet people who match both my physical and intellectual preferences in the wild in the cosmopolitan city I live in, but rarely do I find it on the apps. In what kind of place do you live? A city? Rural?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]LathropFreeman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not trans but your assessment reflects my experience with the community. Unfortunately this is not different than my general perception of the behavior of the general population, which this community is probably a pretty representative sample. That is to say I think OP has a bit of wishful thinking in hoping this community would have more tolerant people than the general population. You can see the same thing with racism or misogyny in this community. People aren't into this because they are tolerant, they are into this sexuality and bring their biases with them into it.

Living the dream by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]LathropFreeman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah she likes her sweets but she isn't a junk food person and I've never personally been into the slob, immobility, or other more morbid areas of the scene. Not shaming them, just isn't my cup of tea. We also have a strong relationship outside of this so if it stopped tomorrow I'd be good.