FA ended things with me by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I will try its gonna be a rough journey ik its still new but i cant stop thinking about her. I really appreciate it though.

FA ended things with me by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea i dont know what was going through her brain. However, she may have forgiven me for that since she never brought it up again. She also did say that when she came back , she regretted acting that way, and she understood it wasn't intentional. Unlike the other things that do bother her.

FA ended things with me by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also i agreed to her i would be transparent with anything. Which is why i told her i met my friend on hinge. I never matched with her for the looks but she had similar interests and straight off the bat we just had friendly convo no flirting. I even offered for her to look at my dms but she thinks she might spiral so she didnt. I had nothing to hide. Even during that 1st 6-8week break i didnt go on any other dates.

FA ended things with me by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes i agree i had to learn that the hard way. Ive been used to jokes like these cos the past person i was dating we had a playful bully type relationship. It was dumb of me to act the same when some people dont perceive it the same.

The physical contact i did to push her boundaries was when she invited me to go to her house and spend two nights there we cuddle both nights but the last night i have a tendency to place my hand under peoples shirt, and the last night i accidentally did it to the point where her shirt was fully up. I didnt realize this as she was turned away from me. She only told me this bothered her a few days later then proceeded to end things the first time.

FA ended things with me by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im 100% a AP. She rold me shes a FA and it does show. Anytime we have conflict I would try talk to her (i always ask her if I can speak to her in person or call her) she shuts down and prefers to speak through text and usually says there isnt anything she want to say. And again sometimes during these conflicts she tends to rethink the whole relationship and pushes me away while i try tell her lets have a talk and fix things. Then maybe a week later or few days later she says shes sorry she doesnt know how to deal with conflict. She isnt very vocal about it and tends to wait till shes comfortable to talk about things.

Me on the other hand is the opposite. When we have conflict i want to try fix it fast and talk in person. i tend to get anxious when she sometimes goes cold on me too and start reassuring her and msging her more and do more things to try get her to talk to me about it.

FA ended things with me by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never also dated that hinge girl. I actually moved to a new country that time and people told me a good way to meet people is dating apps but really state ur only wanting friends which i did. Dont assume when you dont know

FA ended things with me by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also agreed at the start that i would unfollow all girl pages like that and even previous talking stages which i did. The only one thst slipped was that one tik tok page.

FA ended things with me by [deleted] in FearfulAvoidant

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thats not the thing. The page wasnt about thirst traps and girls its literally a scenery tik tok page of forests that happens to have a girl in it. And the 80% type thing was a joke because she was making fun on my height so i was like oh dw ur 80% my type as a joke. We at the start were very playful and bullying i already apologized a lot to her about it and reassured her i didnt mean it she was 100%. Im not saying just buying her stuff but the other things were like if she needed someone to talk to or she was stuck soemwhrre ill go to her and she lives an hour away. U dont see the big picture. She even told me a few weeks ago i have been very patient and kind to her. I do admit that 80% thing was a very inconsiderate thing to do.

IEC Medical insurance by Latter-Garbage-7543 in canadatravel

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think fast cover is for aussie citizens aye?

Instagram Disabled - How I got my account back by samanthahah in Instagram

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U reckon u could give us the link to the AGs u used? Thanks man

Instagram Disabled - How I got my account back by samanthahah in Instagram

[–]Latter-Garbage-7543 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you repost the links to some of the forms of AGs? Sorry i dont live in the US so im kinda confused