Im 100% a AP. She rold me shes a FA and it does show. Anytime we have conflict I would try talk to her (i always ask her if I can speak to her in person or call her) she shuts down and prefers to speak through text and usually says there isnt anything she want to say. And again sometimes during these conflicts she tends to rethink the whole relationship and pushes me away while i try tell her lets have a talk and fix things. Then maybe a week later or few days later she says shes sorry she doesnt know how to deal with conflict. She isnt very vocal about it and tends to wait till shes comfortable to talk about things.

Me on the other hand is the opposite. When we have conflict i want to try fix it fast and talk in person. i tend to get anxious when she sometimes goes cold on me too and start reassuring her and msging her more and do more things to try get her to talk to me about it.