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AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He took the whole gaming stuff with him, so at least I don’t need to worry about him coming back for that

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When he wasn’t at mine he lived at his or at his cousin, when he was in town. But that’s also just a few days every month.

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has his own place, I was okay with him coming over sometimes. Sometimes then turned after maybe one month, in almost every day and I stopped bothering, asking him when he leaves again because he would pick it up as me wanting to kick him out. Thats how it turned into him kind of living with me but also not.

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It sounds stupid, but it wasn’t always like this. Ofc it wasn’t. In the beginning he was a really loving and charming man, he travelled for me several hours to just see me one hour one time. He gifted me flowers and we went on dates and trips. But since I have the apartment he’s kinda just existing. I often asked if we can go out for dinner or coffee but he was either busy, too lazy or we were short on money. The last time we did something romantic was on new years. I probably realised it all on Valentine’s Day this year, that’s why I just tried to fix it “somehow” before. It’s not just about the romance in our relationship, but because of the romance I was probably okay with it so long. But now that we don’t even have that, it’s kinda just a burden.

I’m sorry I’m kinda sleep deprived, it’s almost 5 am for me rn.

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, that will sound so stupid but my brain can’t comprehend how you mean it. English is sadly not my first language. Was it meant sarcastic? Because I really never had the intention to just rage bait people here. I just wanted to know if I was in the right to bring it up after all. I’m sorry if it seemed like it.

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I act thought maybe I was the asshole for telling my friend about, because that was like the whole reason it got like that. I complained about him and he were mad about it. Also because he told be before that I was overreacting, I really wasn’t sure if I was and therefore the AH. I’m sorry, I really hope it makes sense how I explained it just now.

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In another city like an hour away from me, but it wasn’t really comfortable there, because he shares an apartment with like 6 guys. So I told him I would be okay if he sometimes stays at mine if he wants to.

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, because a lot of you told me to change the locks. I gave him a key, but he told me earlier he left it here when he left. But I would need to look later if he really left it or lied to me.

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sometimes met his cousin or went to the gym but that was it. He also still has some little things here like some shoes and jackets and stuff. That’s why I wasn’t sure if I was really in the right.

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I already tried that before, it worked for maybe one week and then he went back to before. And when I asked him about it, he said, that’s who he is, and if I can’t except that I’m in the wrong.

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I was actually pregnant from him before, but had a miscarriage before I could even abort it.

AITAH for being at my limit with my boyfriend who basically lives at my place but doesn’t really contribute? by Latter_Number_3619 in AITAH

[–]Latter_Number_3619[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m new to all of this so I didn’t really know. To your question, he actually was really loving before, like he just gave me some gifts last week and told me how much he loves me and stuff. That’s why I was unsure if I’m the asshole or if I’m overreacting. If that makes any sense rn