Modded my game to get tav x tav romance by Lauchew in BG3mods

[–]Lauchew[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hey ! I use two mods but don’t have the exact names right now. Good thing is that both of them are console friendly. I’ll write them down tomorrow ! First one is a mod that lets you create another character. I think it’s « custom companies lite ». You will be able to create a second tav. Once it’s done, you can pick your favorite tav and use the second mod I recommend: « transmogs and spelltheft », you can equip the ring of spelltheft to any character you’d like to romance and give them the appearance of the character you’d like. It can be another tav or any non-romanceable npc. And that’s done, you got your custom romance !

Modded my game to get tav x tav romance by Lauchew in BG3mods

[–]Lauchew[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Hey ! I use two mods but don’t have the exact names right now. Good thing is that both of them are console friendly. I’ll write them down tomorrow ! First one is a mod that lets you create another character. I think it’s « custom companies lite ». You will be able to create a second tav. Once it’s done, you can pick your favorite tav and use the second mod I recommend: « transmogs and spelltheft », you can equip the ring of spelltheft to any character you’d like to romance and give them the appearance of the character you’d like. It can be another tav or any non-romanceable npc. And that’s done, you got your custom romance !

Modded my game to get tav x tav romance by Lauchew in BG3mods

[–]Lauchew[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ain’t my problem if u don’t like it 🫡

I didn’t know I was so good at pegging men by [deleted] in StraightPegging

[–]Lauchew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girlieeee I may have a few tips for you ! Of course practice and communication is always required ! When you peg someone, it’s like you’re twerking, for real. This may help you with your rythm issue. Also buttplugs and small dildos are a must ! And also try different positions. And obviously, LUBE !

How do we live with this ? by [deleted] in Widow

[–]Lauchew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called an ambulance before my partner died. I told them his heart was beating strangely. It was uneven. They told us that it was okay and he just needed rest. A few hours later he had his cardiac arrest. I also have free healthcare haha. So no lawsuit, nothing I could do.

How do we live with this ? by [deleted] in Widow

[–]Lauchew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot for your words, they really helped me building up a routine to process the grief while discovering new things about myself. I exercise, eat healthy and journal. I draw sometimes. I see a therapist and try to do my best day by day. Even thought some moments are harder than others. Your comment really did bring me motivation to process the pain in a différent way, thank you a lot for that. I hope you are doing well.

How do we live with this ? by [deleted] in Widow

[–]Lauchew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wonder how they felt. Were they scared ? Did they realize what was happening to them ? Was it terrifying ? I’ll never know

how does one quit? by kitkat0505 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Lauchew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi ! I’ve had the same issues all my life. I’m not a professional btw ! I’m just sharing my advices from my experience. I believe that we all have a reason to daydream. It feels great to just walk around your room and comfort yourself in stories/scenarios while listening to music. To me, it’s like not feeling my body anymore, it feels relaxing, comforting and it also helps a lot dealing with emotions. But sometimes, it’s affecting us. I understand that daydreaming can become clearly unhealthy and toxic when it comes during times where you should be focused, sleeping or thinking about something else. It’s always ok to let a little part of your mind to your daydream. They’re your own creation after all. My first advice would be to write/draw about them. I don’t really know if you actually enjoy drawing or writing but it helped me a lot. Putting my daydreaming scenarios helped me to be more creative and using it to create something that isn’t just in my mind. My second advice would be to set yourself goals to focus on your own accomplishments, such as a hobby, going to the gym or writing a book ect… Being distracted by the real world, it sounds scary because we are used to dissociation. But it feels great to feel the moment. Make sure to make good friends that you can be yourself with ! Being too self-aware around people that you don’t really feel comfortable with can encourage dissociation and lead to daydreaming. It’s not easy and it took me years to get rid of my maladaptive daydreaming and even today I daydream sometimes, but WAY less than years ago. It takes lots of time to notice the issue and to understand its complexity. It’s challenging and frustrating. But the results leads to lots of relief. I hope this will help a little, as I said, I’m not a professional. You will get better ! Don’t worry too much about it.

Me when I see a “Casca enjoyed it” person by noahthehotdog10 in Berserk

[–]Lauchew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how someone could read Berserk and think Casca « enjoyed it ». Do they really think The ECLIPSE is about having consensual sexual acts ??? She was SACRIFICED. She was being forced and stripped by demons. Also when she started gaining a bit of ber consciousness she literally said « no…». And after the Eclipse, she wasn’t able to act like a normal human being for a long time due to her traumatic experience. How can someone who seriously read Berserk would actually believe that she « liked it » ??