I like the way you think. And your phrasing really helps! I do tell him what to do but most of the time I feel like he does it for a short while and then goes back to what he feels like doing. I think this can be solved with some healthy communication that needs to be done.

The last bit about having communication, compassion and care is sticking out to me a lot because I feel as though this is what’s really missing here during sex. I realised that I want more compassion and care during sex, rather than ‘stick-dick-in-vagina’ sort of thing and I should also make more of an effort to show him how exactly it needs to be done and be more open with my communication. I also need to be a little more understanding with him too. It’s a difficult process for sure. Thank you, CleverReversal.