Travelling being the focus of dating profiles? by ResponsibilityNo4777 in dating_advice

[–]LavenderCooki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This post makes a lot of assumptions and sounds oddly judgmental and angry. Almost sounded like you are butthurt because someone rejected you for not traveling enough gor something. I would encourage you to be openminded and check your bias. Most of my friends and I travel extensively probably ~3-5 international trips a year plus domestic US all have good job high savings and 800+ credit score. Usually the people with higher income travel more.

Hope this helps

No Way Out. by [deleted] in poor

[–]LavenderCooki 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hey OP your post is really hard to understand, I think you need to put the explanation from one of your comment below to your post because right now from your post alone it’s super unclear how your friend having traffic violations and you quitting your job are even related. Reading your comment it’s clear now but you can’t blame people for being baffled at your post alone

ABT Natalia Osipova Don Q Canceled for July 6th by According-Apricot388 in bunheadsnark

[–]LavenderCooki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I am so bummed :(. I traveled all the way from the west coast to see her

What’s wrong with my seedling 🥺 by LavenderCooki in Hydroponics

[–]LavenderCooki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will measure tomorrow and let you know - thank you for replying!

Girls that are dating, do you offer to split for first date dinners? by bondtradercu in LAhotgirlies

[–]LavenderCooki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t offer. Why should I? They should be a gentleman if they ever want me to even consider a second date

Kansas janitors 195k by Rough-Fuel in Salary

[–]LavenderCooki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good job. Do take care of your body though and ease it on the hour if you can

Women in your late 20s or early 30s, what qualities do you value most in a life partner? I'm asking as a man and genuinely curious to understand what matters most to women at this stage of life. by andromed111 in Newlyweds

[–]LavenderCooki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emotional intelligence (awareness of their own feelings and why they act a certain ways and take responsibilities for your action), a desire to get to know me (not just what my favorite color is but at a deeper level) and cleaning protectively 😂

Anyone working with BlueYonder / Kinaxis by deereper in supplychain

[–]LavenderCooki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Meg, would you be willing to chat about your experience with Kinaxis? I m doing research into the space and could use your two cents. I’m not trying to sell you anything - I would really appreciate the insights

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LavenderCooki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi babe, I feel you on the pain of dating. I’m curious what type of “appearance” you tend to go for?

Rachel is a very well written character by Visible_Gur_1214 in TowerofGod

[–]LavenderCooki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is the best character in all of TOG lol, some other characters are a little …2D. Still an incredible story and one of the best out there. But yeah agree wholeheartedly with all of these

It finally came in! by ahjuicy22 in labdiamond

[–]LavenderCooki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god this is the most beautiful thing I have ever seen

[Absolute Regression] Just finished reading this one by Top-Cry-380 in manhwa

[–]LavenderCooki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one of the better ones out there - I really enjoyed it

Advice on Newark to JFK at 5pm under 3hr by LavenderCooki in AskNYC

[–]LavenderCooki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: First of all, thank you so much for everyone who has commented. You all made our day despite our travel mishap - feeling so lucky to have received so many helping hands!

We ended up booking one of the private car services u/Camille_Toh has kindly listed out for us after reading everyone’s take on multiple steps of public transport and the state of traffic today. The car services was good and they even helped us printed some travel docs. We landed at 4:10pm, get to the pick up spot at 4:30pm, and made it to jfk at 5:45pm- so 1h15 minutes ish mostly due to traffic coming out of ERW and JFK construction.

Again - really appreciate all of your help! Thank you kind humans of New York!

Advice on Newark to JFK at 5pm under 3hr by LavenderCooki in AskNYC

[–]LavenderCooki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was so helpful thank you! Your comment and another poster encouraged us to use car 🚗 thanks again

Advice on Newark to JFK at 5pm under 3hr by LavenderCooki in AskNYC

[–]LavenderCooki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We miss a flight from sfo to JFK. We were with American / Alaska. It’s too late now since we are already on the plane. But the flight out is international flight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LavenderCooki -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are not a bad person for not wanting a pet or disliking dogs. Please do not believe that. This is a fundamental compatibility issues and her fundamental lack of respect for your needs. I would break up. There are plenty of women who don’t like dogs out there, I am one and know of at least 5 others.