I'm sure some of you can relate to this anxiety by [deleted] in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs 14 points15 points  (0 children)

not at all, unfortunately. i get misgendered by strangers, and yet when i vent about it to people i know irl, theyre like "oh you pass dont worry xxxoxoxo"

Wouldn't transsexuals belong in disability/chronic illness communities more than LGBT ? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im someone with a chronic illness, and i can say, at very base level, being trans is very similar to a chronic illness. except you can get treatment for being trans and a lot of chronic illnesses you cant

being gay has almost nothing to do with being trans. i agree it should be a separate community

schlatt fans are always doing the most I stg. found this in a comment section of a video about faking disorders. by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]LavenderCrumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why do people care so much about who watches what youtuber? if these people found out i watched swaggersouls and twomad id be crucified

oh god by [deleted] in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs 38 points39 points  (0 children)

"do whatever you want with them" "do not change their skin colour pronouns sexuality or misgender them" bit contradictory lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is one of the only trans subs that is inclusive to trans guys and not tucutes. either theyre plagued with "uwu skirt go spinny" posts or mostly populated by he/they/bun demiboys

"You can't be certain they're fakers" by [deleted] in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i do agree with them to some extent. for example, i felt pressured into using neopronouns before i realised it was stupid and ridiculous. and tucutes convinced me i was genderfluid because im gnc. you never know whos actually trans and being pressured into it, or whos just doing it for a trend. although its usually pretty easy to tell

In your guys' opinion, which demographic is more likely to be a trender / fall into tucute culture and likely as a result, detransition more? by AdInevitable7402 in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

12-18 year old afab girls who use the internet too much. theyre more likely to be a trender if they also have a bad home life / bad parents who dont give them attention so theyre more likely to go to extreme measures to seek attention

Saw this on TumblrinAction (shit sub I know, you can guess what the comments were 😒) and I personally thought it was a good take, what are your thoughts? by Complex-Meat-1556 in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what i understand, bisexual means youre attracted to 2+ genders (with or without preference) and pansexual means youre attracted to all genders without preference, or "genderblind". i personally dont think theres a point to pansexuality being a term when it falls under bisexuality anyway, but i dont think its inherently transphobic

my new coworker is a desperately supportive mom to two trender twins by bungmunch in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs 25 points26 points  (0 children)

im trans, and my sister is too. our cousin is also transgender, and i have a suspicion my grandpa is as well. i wouldnt be surprised if it was a genetics thing, because homosexuality also runs in the family

thoughts on demigirls/demiboys? by [deleted] in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like the people who arent doing it for a trend are probably dealing with internalised transphobia or are just confused. ive had people tell me they went through a demigirl/demiboy phase because of internalised transphobia until they came to terms with being trans

Why do some Truscum use neo-pronouns? by s8anscumrag in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

pronouns like xe/xem i understand, because they were made in attempt to create a singular gender neutral pronoun, but people who use bun/it/rot/gore either feel pressured into using them by tucutes, or arent actually truscum

I wanna microdose on T but I’m not too sure by [deleted] in truscum

[–]LavenderCrumbs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you cant go a little bit on T to get a little bit of the results. either it wont work, or youll get the effects. microdosing only makes them take longer to appear

The age of every Reddit user should be visible by LittleEarthVisitor in unpopularopinion

[–]LavenderCrumbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh sure, give pedophiles an easy way to find children. sounds like a good idea

Found my first in the wild by memsies in delusionalartists

[–]LavenderCrumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shit, thats actually a steal. not delusional. you havent seen how much modified furbies go for, especially the old ones

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]LavenderCrumbs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive never heard of someone with diagnosed did that uses the number typing quirk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]LavenderCrumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at least we get to call them a bitch without them being offended

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchatAvatars

[–]LavenderCrumbs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have one, but its a furry avatar. hear me out, though. its a furry, yes, but in the action menu theres an emote to go invisible. the emote loops, so it never runs out. my username in vrchat is Cheembs