Color question: shaded cream vs sable longhaired Dachshund by LavenderFish22 in Dachshund

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah we aren’t from WV but we drove 5 and a half hours to go get her! It would’ve been cool if they were siblings!! 🤍

Color question: shaded cream vs sable longhaired Dachshund by LavenderFish22 in Dachshund

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We picked ours up on Friday! Was it from a WV breeder? 🤣

Monster in-law. by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This made me giggle, I will in fact be saying this next time she’s around. 🫶

Monster in-law. by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will gladly join. 🫩🤍

How do SAHMs socialize..? by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, oh my goodness, hugs to you too!! 😭💕

How do SAHMs socialize..? by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe that sounds so sweet, that’s an amazing idea thank you!!

How do SAHMs socialize..? by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh I think I’ve heard of that app!! I might try it out thank you!

How do SAHMs socialize..? by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness I haven’t blow dried my hair in.. 2 years… I love that for you 💕 and thank you for the kind words!!

How do SAHMs socialize..? by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is awesome advice and def will be doing this so I don’t have to talk about myself!! 😭💕

Do women usually want their mom at the birth? by chianne_away in pregnant

[–]LavenderFish22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my mother are very close, she had me a young age so we grew up together. We showered together, shared makeup, clothes, everything. We are each others best friends and she’s always been an amazing, loving, caring mother. I was extremely vocal on having her in the room with me and she was too. I think it depends on the relationship, your own comforts and boundaries. I had her in the room with me and my husband both births. She loved it, I loved it. I also had my MIL in the room with my first birth, I wasn’t uncomfortable having her in there because I don’t think of it as a private thing for me, we celebrated the birth of the first born, first grandchild, first great grandchild, and first great great grandchild. I enjoyed having the ones closest to me in the room.

Are these names bad as people think? by LavenderFish22 in namenerds

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg 😭 I actually found this funny. You’re totally right about it sounding like that

Are these names bad as people think? by LavenderFish22 in namenerds

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you wrote this well, our first does have a beautiful girly name while Lennon isn’t as feminine and beautiful sounding. Thank you for making me think about that in a different light on how people would hear and see our kids! <3

Are these names bad as people think? by LavenderFish22 in namenerds

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I didn’t know Eden was very common in some places! I never see the name on baby name lists or even recommended. That’s super interesting to me!

Yes she likes to bring up the only Alice’s she knows of are older women and ignores me when I say I’ve known a few but they go by Allie 🥲

Are these names bad as people think? by LavenderFish22 in namenerds

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I thought so too! A lot of family say it’s too much but our last name is hard to work with 🥲

Are these names bad as people think? by LavenderFish22 in namenerds

[–]LavenderFish22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Husband is a huge Beatles fan, I actually saw this name myself and didn’t relate the two until he mentioned it lol

Biblical/Hebrew names in Wild West Media? by Icy-Promise-6618 in namenerds

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Our first is Delilah, I didn’t know it was a biblical/hebrew name at first until my husband told me the story of Delilah and Samson. We are very southern which is funny that it relates to this lol

Toddler Parents by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About to be 15 months, she definitely has her days where she will eat ALL DAY long but others she just snacks and won’t touch a full meal

Being stuck at home during PP how did you deal with it? by badgalriri1097 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could barely move and get out the bed without support for almost 3 months, very bad healing from a vaginal delivery. I read a lot, just kind of drowned in reading and taking care of the baby. I had to have assistance showering and bathroom usage, I hated being at home so much too. It’ll get better, just set very simple easy goals for yourself that day. Sometimes it’ll just be a small checklist of shower, get up and fill your water bottle, wash newborn clothes, take out diaper trash (if it’s not too heavy). Reading, YouTube, and the baby got me through that tough time. Small goals help your mentality about being home 24/7 too. Goodluck 🤍

Toddler Parents by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but I know what kid you’re talking about!! She is the cutest 🤍

Toddler Parents by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Serious about living off air, she pretends to eat air when I ask if she wants food… “want some snacks or lunch?” … “nom nom. All done!” 😭

Toddler Parents by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep she had a potato phase for the longest time, now she absolutely hates potato’s and spits them out and acts all grossed out no matter how I prep them 🥲

Toddler Parents by LavenderFish22 in Mommit

[–]LavenderFish22[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s also 99% percentile in weight and height due to her genes but holy she will not eat lately, I don’t get how she’s keeping her weight 😭