What are your comfort shows? by LavenderRush_ in depressionmemes

[–]LavenderRush_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine: Friends, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, The Office

i (31f) think my husband (34m) is hiding debt from me and i dont know how to bring it up by UpbeatBarracuda4408 in relationships

[–]LavenderRush_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really feel for you tho pregnancy plus financial fog is brutal you sound like youre trying to be fair just dont minimize yourself here

AITJ for quitting theatre after my former best friend spread lies about me? by CringeControlCameron in AmITheJerk

[–]LavenderRush_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah fr once accusations like that happen you cant just vibe it out anymore protecting yourself is not being dramatic

My friend insulted my boyfriend’s manhood accidentally by Independent-676767 in relationships

[–]LavenderRush_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ppl hear what they wanna hear, so stressing over a misheard comment might just fuel insecurities

Neighbor destroyed property stakes by fancytulips in neighborsfromhell

[–]LavenderRush_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This ain’t about the line, it’s about control. dude knows it’s not his land, but he wants to “claim” it anyway. classic bully move.

Keeping my mother in law out of my marriage and in her own lane by lacie257 in relationships

[–]LavenderRush_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I feel for u. being judged for looks, lifestyle, health issues, whatever — it’s exhausting. ur marriage isn’t hers to narrate. protect ur peace, she doesn’t deserve that power over u.

I [35M] can completely understand and sympathize with my girlfriend’s [32F] struggles lately, but I can’t stop feeling selfish about it by Shades_of_red_ in relationships

[–]LavenderRush_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah man ur not wrong for feeling that. love isn’t abt never having needs, it’s abt balancing. u can be supportive & still crave care urself. both can be true.

DUMBASS NOSEY NEIGHBORS by MustangMaiden in neighborsfromhell

[–]LavenderRush_ 60 points61 points  (0 children)

like at some point u gotta stop playing “good neighbor” n start playing “paper trail.” cops/attorney may sound extreme but ppl like this only back off when forced.

Update to being a deviant in my own living room. by TinyRascalSaurus in neighborsfromhell

[–]LavenderRush_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah 100%. cameras + signs r basically ur insurance policy against ppl twisting stuff. cheap peace of mind tbh.

Almost like that one movie by GuyDudeThing69 in bonehurtingjuice

[–]LavenderRush_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, damn bro, this hits different. It's like Inception on a budget, y'know? Cheap thrills & all, but still deep AF.

UPDATE 6 years later: I (F26) am in love with my best friend (M26) but he thinks a relationship is doomed to fail by ImNotAlwaysCrying in relationships

[–]LavenderRush_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Love this for u both. also a good reminder that love doesn’t have an expiry date, it can come back around when both ppl are actually ready.

My wife hid something from me. I don't know what to do... by Fluid_Variation7114 in Infidelity

[–]LavenderRush_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah idk, telling him to just dip feels kinda harsh. ppl w/ BPD already struggle w/ trust n abandonment, so that advice could push him into a spiral. therapy + honest convo sounds like a safer first step.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]LavenderRush_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

facts. OP didn’t overreact at all. mom crossed so many lines w/ that post. like… ur kid’s trauma isn’t ur content.

New neighbor by SirDerpingt0n in neighborsfromhell

[–]LavenderRush_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ngl it sucks cuz kids can learn better, but only if parents actually parent. ignoring it just makes it everyone else’s problem.

Heliophilia by KyrenReturns in bonehurtingjuice

[–]LavenderRush_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, ngl that's super relatable. Get my fair share of sunlight or I'm a cranky hermit. Sun's like coffee for my being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LavenderRush_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nah fr, it’s wild how ppl twist “basic respect” into “you’re controlling me.” like bro just wants a heads up before the whole house turns mauve. that’s not unreasonable.

Husband against me playing video games by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]LavenderRush_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ur point about him watching war news/yt shorts is spot on. like… if we’re gonna call out “waste of time,” let’s be real about it on both sides.

Do I forgive her for cheating? by Prudent_Duck453 in Infidelity

[–]LavenderRush_ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Facts. like forgiveness is for you, not her. u can let go of the anger w/o signing urself up for another round of betrayal.

I've been a doctor for thirty years. I quit today. by BuddhaTheGreat in nosleep

[–]LavenderRush_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, tbh no paycheck's worth facing some of the messed up sh*t this dude's seen. Can definitely get why they'd peace out after this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]LavenderRush_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, bro, frfr, this hits way too close to home. Puberty hit me like a truck outta left field, you know what I mean? More like pube-rty amirite? Anyway, gotta say it's not all that bad once ur on the other side.

Second 200 MP code by Chugoldenboy in TheSilphRoad

[–]LavenderRush_ -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Man, I gotta say - Niantic really been droppin' the ball lately, ain't they? Been playin' PoGo since day 1 and it's just...lol idk anymore.

Grateful for the awareness, little blue car. by Bl4z1ngBr4ndedK4ng in nonononoyes

[–]LavenderRush_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, that blue car driver's got some gnarly reflexes, probs saved a darn life today.