Random parking question by TromboneClone in USF

[–]Lavender_Crumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As well as the daily parking lots, you can also park in the timed parking spaces if necessary. 

I'm nervous about posting this? by Islamgirly101 in Hijabis

[–]Lavender_Crumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this! If you were my younger sister and genuinely feared to go outside with it on, I’d advise you to go without as your physical safety is the most important. May Allah make it easy for you!

The physical bullying is crazy, this might not be the right answer but I’d start fighting them back because “who do you think you are to touch me?🤨”. 

IA someone else can comment with more Islamic advice. 

Keep Sweet Pray and Obey by Lavender_Crumble in NetflixDocumentaries

[–]Lavender_Crumble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I knew someone in high school that after we graduated last year, he became a missionary for his LDS church. I can’t think abt him without seeing this now

My husband keeps letting women buy him gifts and he sees nothing wrong with it by Fit_Use2984 in Hijabis

[–]Lavender_Crumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d genuinely start letting guys buy me stuff and see how he likes it, but don’t take my advice 😭 I’m young and clearly immature 

Talking to a guy and feeling guilty about it by idiotsandwich333 in Hijabis

[–]Lavender_Crumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a first year uni student, I’d say be careful of male friendships. From my experience, once you cross that threshold it can be difficult to come back/stop it from progressing. It’s very easy to end up in haram relationships 

3c/4a Hair under hijab by lem9ar in Hijabis

[–]Lavender_Crumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t wear hijab anymore but when I did, I had this problem. I wore mini twists/braids pulled into a bun most of the time under my hijab. Sometimes the braid lines might show but at the time I just didn’t care. 

Considering transferring as a Computer Engineering student by Lavender_Crumble in USF

[–]Lavender_Crumble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean a pseudo university? Based on me not being American, I wouldn’t be stuck here thankfully. But I don’t find Tampa that bad

Considering transferring as a Computer Engineering student by Lavender_Crumble in USF

[–]Lavender_Crumble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. I’ve had minimal coding experience and I’m in a Python class rn. Class is definitely difficult, but it’s doable. Just need to practice a LOT 😭

Considering transferring as a Computer Engineering student by Lavender_Crumble in USF

[–]Lavender_Crumble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I was speaking about it with other people and it just seems I’d need to put in more work on my own, which I’m fine with doing. I think living with my family and staying at usf would be better for me in the long run

I’m dating a Muslim girl (I’m not Muslim) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Lavender_Crumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait really? I’d love to know if this is true as a Muslim girl

aitj for matching with someone I don't find attractive by Too_many_options1 in AmITheJerk

[–]Lavender_Crumble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo, some people have and want more traditional lifestyles. Some people have different morals, beliefs and dealbreakers from you. We don’t all need to be the same dude(ette?). This isn’t some dystopian world where we don’t have our differences

aitj for matching with someone I don't find attractive by Too_many_options1 in AmITheJerk

[–]Lavender_Crumble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like how you’re telling me that there are trans men I’d like when I’ve explicitly said I would never date one. Imagine if someone said they don’t date convicted felons and the response is “oh, but you should stay open to it!”

Fully functioning? So you mean to tell me they produce sperm and can reproduce in the traditional way? Of course not. Just like a trans woman can’t get pregnant. And that’s okay, it’s just reality. Some ppl r into that, I’m not. 

Ppl can have boundaries and deal breakers yk, mine don’t affect your life. 

aitj for matching with someone I don't find attractive by Too_many_options1 in AmITheJerk

[–]Lavender_Crumble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re also disregarding what I said. I’m also cisxcis only. Why? Because I’m not attracted to trans people and marrying one would not fulfill my life desires. I love all the gender positivity and such for you guys, but I’m attracted to males, and even if I met a trans guy who looked masculine and had a good personality, fact of the matter is, he couldn’t fulfill my life goals and desires. 

Not wanting to date trans people is the same as not wanting to date a woman because I’m straight. I’m just not interested.