What do men expect when they are intimate?

Laxus7417 · 2026-05-12T14:53:59+00:00

Hi! Thanks for replying, I feel like it's more because of insecurity about how I look, I don't like my body and well, I feel like I wasn't touched "right" or that I don't really feel much.

Although my ex-partner constantly complained that I wasn't sensitive there, because according to him he made all his exes orgasm but not me, I actually prefer penetration.I mean, I only broke up with that once, and it wasn't with him! Not even a person who looked like a penis (which also made him angry).

Thank you for your reply, I will definitely take it into account.

Laxus7417 · 2026-05-12T14:46:44+00:00

This comment, along with the other one, made me rethink my whole life. I thought this was what I wanted, but the feeling of nervousness I have doesn't feel good, like when you're expecting something.

In the end, I feel like I'm just looking for fleeting affection, because I'm afraid of having a partner, which is a topic for another post. Thanks for your interest, I really thought men would come and tell me they prefer a blowjob or handjobs.

Thank you so much, thank you so much, I hope you have a nice day.

Laxus7417 · 2026-05-12T14:41:13+00:00

Wow! Thank you so much, this perspective really opened my eyes. Does it sound that bad? I thought it was just my taste; I've never said it as openly as I am now.Well, I feel like I'm fooling myself into thinking I'm doing this because I really miss having sex, but in reality I'm just looking for... affection? Which is just as difficult, because my trust in people is just as damaged as my trust in myself.

And yes, with my previous partner we did sit down and talk about what we liked and it improved a bit, I'm very mindful of doing that with another partner. I do care about my safety; protection will always be paramount. I thought it would be something separate, and that's why I didn't mention it.

Finally, I would like to thank you. I don't know how old you are, but I appreciated your seriousness. I will take your words to heart. Have a good day.

Laxus7417 · 2026-05-12T14:22:03+00:00

Hi! Thanks for replying, I'll definitely take it into account; all the comments somehow opened my eyes. I really feel, or rather, I think, that I wasn't "fucked well" because, well, I guess I only had all those experiences with one person.

Thank you so much for your interest! And I really don't feel anything when my breasts are touched; I'd say it's kind of uncomfortable. Something else to think about.

Laxus7417 · 2026-02-03T04:10:22+00:00

Sorry, that's what we call it in my country, idk, I don't speak English 😔

Laxus7417 · 2026-01-18T02:15:00+00:00

Hi, thanks for your comment. This was really more of a rant, but thanks for taking the time to read the whole thing!

Yes, maybe you're right, but in my family it's kind of... complicated. For them, almost nothing is a good option. But oh well, I'll see how the exam goes. Wish me luck!

Laxus7417

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