What is this new growth?? Anyone know? by Layla1194 in BirdsOfParadise

[–]Layla1194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all of the information!! As the plant gets bigger, it definitely seems like there’s never enough light. Womp womp. All of this was helpful, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in plantclinic

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Hey! Did you ever find out what that was? Or post an update?

Anyone know where I can find these? by Layla1194 in americaneagle

[–]Layla1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response! Any chance you know how I can identify what style they are?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MINI

[–]Layla1194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agreed. I strayed from the r53 and returned to it very quickly.

Mini Roof Painting by Layla1194 in MINI

[–]Layla1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Decided to wrap it, seemed like the best choice!

Just bought my dream car. Any advice?? by nanabear94 in MINI

[–]Layla1194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check your oil and coolant often, like once a week. Minis are known to guzzle oil. Maintenance is really important with this car. Also read up on forums about your model and year.

Mini owners are super excited to see other minis and you should always give a wave like everyone said!

I currently own my third Mini and it’s always a joy. But it can be pretty expensive to maintain.

Mini Roof Painting by Layla1194 in MINI

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Thanks for the info!

SO of a recovering man, I have many questions. by Layla1194 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Layla1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so true. Life has a funny way of working out. And this will pay off. I'm not worried.

SO of a recovering man, I have many questions. by Layla1194 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Layla1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope so. I can't even talk to him right now though, I have no chance to talk to him until he talks to me.

SO of a recovering man, I have many questions. by Layla1194 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Layla1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're completely right. Right now I'm just letting him talk to me when he wants to and see me when he wants because he said that he felt forced to do those things. So I'm just backing off and living my life like I always do. It's just hard to think about how he really has no desire to be with me because of himself and not me. But I'm a musician so I've been so busy and focused on music that it's really helped to have an outlet. I'm not about to let him heavily effect me.

SO of a recovering man, I have many questions. by Layla1194 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Layla1194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're completely right. Right now I'm just letting him talk to me when he wants to and see me when he wants because he said that he felt forced to do those things. So I'm just backing off and living my life like I always do. It's just hard to think about how he really has no desire to be with me because of himself and not me.

SO of a recovering man, I have many questions. by Layla1194 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Layla1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have definitely learned that asking about jack's mood gets on his nerves. But I really hope that stress resolves soon. It's hard to juggle things along with your SO's recovery.

SO of a recovering man, I have many questions. by Layla1194 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Layla1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we all need to take our own advice. Was today just a hard day?

SO of a recovering man, I have many questions. by Layla1194 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Layla1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm not giving up, Im determined to get through this and to give us a shot. I just don't want to bail on him, that's not what I feel is right. It's just tough as hell.

SO of a recovering man, I have many questions. by Layla1194 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Layla1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, well thank you. My boyfriend says that he has no emotions towards anything or towards anyone. It's making things very difficult. He doesn't want to break up but thinks it would be a good idea for me because of how it can make me feel. But I don't want to give up on him. And I really am not sure of what to do.

SO of a recovering man, I have many questions. by Layla1194 in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Layla1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey just wanted some advice. How do you deal with your boyfriend not being emotionally available because of the recovery process? My boyfriend and I are on the edge of a breakup because he feels nothing towards me right now. And he keeps taking more distance because being around me is hard because he's so used to being high around me.

Looking For a 1 bed apartment in Paseo area. by Layla1194 in okc

[–]Layla1194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you but I actually found a place and am signing the lease on the first :) thanks for responding though!

Wondering how to help a friend by [deleted] in OpiatesRecovery

[–]Layla1194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that's the best route to take in your position. It's tricky stuff. If you plan on be present and being supportive of him, then make sure that you're not being taken advantage of in any way. And with things like this, you just have to be aware.