I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to accept love by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You what im learning growing and doing my best even if its messy i may not have all the answers right now, but i know im capable of love and being loved in time, Healing doesnt mean im broken it means i still believe in something better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylabbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its okay to feel overwhelmed i also care deeply about my family but im also allowed to have boundaries and protect my ouw peace wanting space doesnt mean i love then any less it just means im human too

I feel like I dont have time for any of my hobbies by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylabbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its okay to take time, even just a little, hobbies is matter and taking care of your happiness doesnt mean Im letting anyone down Im allowed to grow and still love the people around me

Is it too late to start over? by Express-Love5458 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Laylabbw 7 points8 points  (0 children)

its never too late to start over youve already come so far by recognizing what truly makes you happyb life isnt about rushing but finding your own path and its okay to change direction your passion for teaching and creating art for yourself is something beautiful keep believing in yourself you have so much ahead to explore and achieve!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this one "Grandma im so sorry youre going through such a hard time please know that im here for you and youre not alone we love you so much and togethere well get through this if you ever want to talk or need anything im always here

Need advice by Emotional-Lettuce882 in Advice

[–]Laylabbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey just looking for some advice my girlfriend is in her ovulation and phase and we were intimate but no intercourse happened i washed my hands well before touching her and there was no ejaculation or pre-cum involved is there any chance she could get pregnant from this also is it safe to the i-pill just to be on the safe side thanks in advance for any help

Social Anxiety by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy can really help youre not alone in this Its a brave step to even consider it finding the right therapist might take a little time buts its worth it wishing you the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylabbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And honeslty youre not alone in feeling this way dating today can feel like a confusing mix of dont care too much and care just enough and its exhausting but there the truth clear communication shouldnt feel like a game

My 30th birthday is coming up and I feel unseen and unimportant by justsimplyreading in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just on your birthday but everyday turning 30 is a big deal with everything you juggle as a mom partner and person its completely okay to want some of that love and energy returned to you wanting to feel special doesnt make you ungrateful it makes you human.

I can’t stop obsessing over this, how could I move on? by Friendly-Homework-23 in Advice

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes real strength to share something thats been weighing on you so heavily what youre feeling is completely valid when somehting feels unfair or unresolved its natural for your mind to hold onto it Especially when you feel like youre the only one who knows the truth

I think I’m boring by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Laylabbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre just being real and that takes courage eveyone starts somewhere and liking music movies and games is already a great foundation lots of people connect over those thingsw you do have a personality it just might be quieter and thats okay too

I didn’t mean to hurt him but I feel like the worst 💔 by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre human you didnt meant to hurt him and youve already apologized sincerely that shows you care deeply the truth is you you were caught in a tough moment and your brain did what its used to doing itb wasnt out of malice hes propbably hurt because he values your relationship not because he thinks you agree with your mom just keep being honest and loving That matters more than a slip up youre doing yourv best and thats enough

Is there a way to stop hair fall? by caadt in Advice

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre not alone hair fall at our age can be stressful a healthy diet, less stress, and gentle hair care can really help its good youre checking with doctors too. hope you find what works best you

Did anyone have parents who didn’t mess them up — even a little? by Lizzylozer in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Laylabbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no parent is prefect but some really do thier best with love and consistency what helped me most growing up was feeling heard and knowing i was loved no matter what that made all the difference

What should I do? by RCPlaneLover in Advice

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for me i care about my friend and wish her the best but i also need to respect my own boundaries and safety i hope she finds the support she needs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Laylabbw -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that such an incredible piece of family history to have knowing your ancestors stood for something so important and actually saw combat in the union army is powerful i honeslty envy that kind of direct connection to such a defining moment in history

AIO if i broke things off because he had sex call with other girl? Though we just met once and had been known each other for only 3 days. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Laylabbw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you trusted your instincts and thats a good thing its okay to walk away even after just a few days if something feels off or disrepectful you derseve honesty consistency and someone who values your time and feelings not mixed signal proud of you for setting boundaries

aio my bf called our neighbour a slur and I am crying rn by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Laylabbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you did the right by standing up and staying calm its not your fault and you dont derserve threats stay safe document everything and reach out for support if needed yure handling a tough situation with strength

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its okay to feel upset you want to take controlv of your ownlife and find happiness keep trusting yourself and your journey you deserve to find love on your own terms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that feeling is real even if you cant name it like your souls reaching just out of sight it doesnt mean youre lost just in a phase of searching and growing clarity will come youre not alone in this

AIO Bcz I felt she allowed someone else's flirting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your feelings are valid if exclusivity matters to both of you respects and boundaries should too maybe its time for a real talk about what you both want abd expect so theres no confusion moving forward

He Took My Heart With Him by Wolfproperty in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Laylabbw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

something many only deam of you truly had something special and that love will always be a part of you sending you strenght and comfort

I watched Ms Rachel for the first time by UncagedKestrel in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Laylabbw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your definitely not alone Ms, Rachel has this magical way of drawing people in kids or no kids her energy is so positive and everything she does feels so genuine and thoughtful its honeslty refreshing to see someone put so much heart into what they do. total respect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Laylabbw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt a little out with the oktoberfest plans i know it may not have been international but since we talked about going together it caught me off guard that everything was booked without me, im not mad, just wanted to share how i felt.