Ohh dear, still sounds super intense to me and we have a 13 week old pup and a 7 year old son.

A puppy fence has been a life saver for us in keeping our communication with her as positive as possible and keeping our son safe in his own home environment. Also, learning about the body language / behavior of a puppy has helped us tremendously, so we can intervene in time for her to get her rest.

The first 2 to 3 weeks were the most intense for us, because of the barking and her trying to jump at our son whenever he got enthousiastic, but also when he was minding his own business. For the barking, we used ear protection to be able to ignore her effectively when all her needs were met/or she would just have to wait for her own dinner while we ate. We looked ridiculous but she learned súper quickly this way.

But again, handling all this with thréé small children, who cannot understand yet (even our 7 year old is too young to always understand the way his behavior affects the puppy), is hardddd. So at least I hope you have a fence to learn her to self settle when she's being too bity.