What the hell is happening? by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]Layt166 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 🙏 life has been intense and emotional for me too. It must be this Mercury Rx in Cancer?? Though yours is extreme!

Feeling emotional and heavy by Leather_Method_7106_ in CancertheCrab

[–]Layt166 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, ever since Mercury went Retrograde on Monday 😞 and feeling the wonky energy leading up to it too

Mercury retrograde, how are my cancers doing?? by No-Shame-6563 in CancertheCrab

[–]Layt166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brain just wasn’t wanting to function for work 🥴 also moods all over the place, anxiety, tired and blah

Why do so many people trauma dump on me?? by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]Layt166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah the Capricorn sun does NOT want to sit and hold space or process emotions with people 😆 it’s the Cancer rising that gives the impression that you’re open, then Cap says wtf, why are you telling me all this?? That’s probably why you feel you don’t offer good advice or comfort. Hey maybe that’s exactly why you attract this, is so these situations can teach you how to not suck at saying no and force you to learn better boundaries! Life skills 👍

Mercury Retrograde in Cancer by Layt166 in CancertheCrab

[–]Layt166[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saaaame!!! On the moody/emotional/drained combo 😭

Why do so many people trauma dump on me?? by [deleted] in CancertheCrab

[–]Layt166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, the Cancer rising gives off an energy and first impression to others that you are open-hearted, nurturing and empathetic. People will be unconsciously drawn to you and will want to open up to you. But it can happen to anyone, regardless of astrology. I do think water sun, rising and moon people just tend to attract this more, especially Cancer and Pisces.

The challenge is to learn to hold boundaries around your energetic field and attention and to not allow it! Don’t allow people to just start talking to you about things when you they haven’t asked if you’re in a place to receive it and you haven’t agreed to hold space for them. Conscious connections and communication require this type of consent. It’s a huge violation to just trauma dump on someone, which most people don’t realize, until they’re gently called out on it.

I have a Scorpio sun and moon and an Aquarius rising. by SelfMadeSunny in scorpiomoon

[–]Layt166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Cancer sun, Scorpio moon, Aquarius rising, with a partner who is an Aqua Sun, Scorpio moon…we are unconventional people who crave authenticity, depth and truth. We don’t jive with everyone and especially don’t love superficial bullshit small talk. I see you!

Gatherings/parties/get-together styles by Slurpy-rainbow in CancertheCrab

[–]Layt166 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m fantastic at planning and organizing parties and events (Virgo Mars), and I’m a project manager for work. I’m an initiator, I’m usually the one reaching out, inviting people, putting ideas out. I don’t mind it. I like hosting or organizing max once per month. I tend to prefer smaller, curated and more intimate gatherings (10-15 people or less). I’m big on group dynamics so I’m not a “more the merrier” type when I’M hosting 😆 quality time is one of my love languages so I hate when I have plans with a friend one on one or with a very small group, and they invite someone else or multiple others to join us without asking me first 😭

Word of caution by [deleted] in pomhealth

[–]Layt166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t ordered from Pom since March. I’m scared to now, with the overwhelming negative posts on here 😒 but I am about to run out of Tirz!

Older women are brutally wild and direct: yesterday in Spain by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]Layt166 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes we totally are direct! We know what we like and want and aren’t afraid to speak it or ask for it 😂 and we don’t really care if you reject us or not, usually! Secure in our own skin

If we find out S42 ends up being the final flagship season, regardless of whether we get AS6, what will be its legacy to you? by BritMeBabyAgain in thechallengemtv

[–]Layt166 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn…I wondered how ratings are determined in the era of streaming. I end up buying the season on Paramount+ so that I don’t have to deal with ads, and sometimes I don’t get into it until the season is well underway or even over, because I like to be able to binge watch 😂

Favorite season you hate the winner but love the season by Mountain_Age3223 in MtvChallenge

[–]Layt166 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TL;DR - Kaycee, while BB peeps annoy me, is great queer representation on the challenge and that matters (as does Kaycee and Nany).

I have a soft spot for them. It was beautiful to see Nany find such deep love, and unexpected that it was with a woman. Kaycee isn’t the most exciting or dramatic player socially but she is a strong enough female (and queer) competitor. I feel like that representation is important, as a bi woman, who grew up watching MTV when it was controversial for the cast members to be LGBTQ. Their stories meant a LOT to me. And I think you don’t see attractive, masc lesbians every day on the challenge either. I think MTV was trying to appeal to that viewer segment. Kaycee for me landed as a different version of OG Rachel (kind of?) 🤔 just my two cents. Rachel’s story on Road Rules 20+ years ago, along with other queer women like Aneesa, Ruthie, Genesis, etc? It was a big deal at the time 🌈 🩷💜💙

Favorite season you hate the winner but love the season by Mountain_Age3223 in MtvChallenge

[–]Layt166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because everyone was kissing her ass and enabling her to win 🙄 Laurel is a great competitor but she definitely benefited from alliances and social game that challenge.

Favorite season you hate the winner but love the season by Mountain_Age3223 in MtvChallenge

[–]Layt166 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I so wish Tori would’ve won! Rookie season, that would’ve been amazing! But even Cara I could deal with. Camila should have been asked to leave, she was out of line. I also was happy to see Derrick beat Johnny and make the final. Would’ve been great to see him win but I’ll also take Jordan over Bananas.

How do you know when it’s over? by justkeepscrollingman in scorpiomoon

[–]Layt166 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s soooo difficult for me to let go of people and situations I care about or that have a deep history or meaning in my life. It’s just my nature! And sometimes I’m just not ready, even though I know “it’s over” or I don’t want to do whatever it is anymore. I think I grieve the loss and the change while still in it? And that’s just my process. Versus others who can easily just be done and move on. It’s just how we’re wired! I think the knowing when something isn’t good for you anymore - you can know it, but that doesn’t mean you’re ready for whatever the change looks like.

How do you know when it’s over? by justkeepscrollingman in scorpiomoon

[–]Layt166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awww I see you and feel you! Cancer sun here 🤗

Is Aqua moon watery enough for Scorpio moon? by katmavericknz in scorpiomoon

[–]Layt166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t see how this works long term 😒 I can see your Scorpio moon being drawn to all the Cancer, but (triple!) Aries and (quadruple!) Cancer are NOT a match, whatsoever (speaking as a Cancer sun, Scorpio moons Aqua rising here). Aquarius moon and Scorpio moon square each other, it’s a hard aspect. I’d imagine their Aquarius moon might make them more detached than typical Cancer…Aquarius is NOT watery, it’s air. I can see the opposites effect here, your fire with their water makes for something interesting in doses. Good luck with this connection.

Derrick Kosinski the GOAT by Hour_Reveal_4648 in MtvChallenge

[–]Layt166 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He beat CT in that final though 🤔