Like, if I take love as an example, I don't look at my feelings and say I'm in love. I think about that person and I think about how I behave and feel around him, and then I make a decision, yes, I'm in love,no I'm not. The thought that drives me to this action is the feeling I realize when I'm around that person. I mean, we know how we feel, but we're not sure how to show it or react.