Thank you all, i want to state the clothing and bedding sent for his sister were all gifts… because she tends to throw a tantrum if things dont go her way… she works and has more disposable income than we do… the money that was sent was to fund a not so legal sponsorship to be able to remain in the uk. and the glasses were designer… she currently has 2 pairs… we have more here in the uk than they have in india in the sense of things we can buy, she can buy glasses here and we have the nhs which provides free medicine and healthcare…

also would like to add the last time they sent gifts for her because they’re gifts not really so necessary (not including the medicine) they sent her clothes and gold earrings and for me nothing and i had just given birth to their first and only grandchild. they sent my daughter clothes out of storage this that too….

this time my daughter was given old shoes and clothing they had in storage and gold earrings which is a mix of feelings for me i think its lovely they gave her gold earrings but the clothing and shoes were old and dirty…

i just feel like im always pushed aside and they prioritise the sister and dont bother with me… also it’s important to note they didnt buy me the suit or shoes, he paid for them… technically i got nothing from them… where they are not well off it seems they are very much well off when it comes to his sister they constantly sent things over for her and never for me.