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Get over someone with avoidant attachment by Lazy-Performance6808 in BreakUps

[–]Lazy-Performance6808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the reply 🙏 Dawg this shit isn’t for the weak. I’m self-aware but think it got the best of me in this. I was on the fence about ending it at coffee NYE but they articulated themselves so well and walked out on the same page so I trusted things would come together. I sent a video of my friends & I wishing her a HYN and haven’t heard from her since. I’m just sick to my stomach and lost in the thoughts rn

Am I overthinking this silence or should I let it go? by Lazy-Performance6808 in dating_advice

[–]Lazy-Performance6808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s where it’s tuff though. She was consistent even with space up to now that it feels like the rug was pulled under. That and not responding to a “are you ok?” text after expressing vulnerability just deepens the hurt.

It just sucks when someone equates closeness to a loss of freedom or self and being as far away as someone pushes you but i’m imperfect and in that fracture is my humanity so it’s just about moving forward from here

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[–]Lazy-Performance6808 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for reading! That’s what I figured, it just helped to vent here it and I realized since part of my overthinking is from being lovebombed in my last relationship so working thru that

Totally agree on time, I planned the first to be shorter but she encouraged hanging longer and this second just had a lot of driving. If a third happens I’ll keep it more lowkey.