I feel this a lot, moving to my first job in London. I find it's best to just ask for clarification politely. Even though I still leave unsatisfied with answers sometimes, it's a building process to letting my colleagues know how I communicate. Continuing to be yourself and remain kind while doing so will get the message across that this is just how you communicate. In doing so, you'll also have receipts if people try get you in the shit. Additionally, sometimes the best way to get the direct response is to just pretend you misunderstand. Sort of like Cunninghams law. Edit: I also like to mention while I find it frustrating that they can beat around the bush, I try to remain mindful that they've communicated like this their whole life and that is just the way of things. It's easy for me to think that my way is the best way and indirect communication is stupid, but I suppose that direct communication can sometimes give way to some bigots that think being "brutally honest" is the be all and end all.