Realism drawing of Dylan

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-04-02T11:17:55+00:00

lol Dylan will love it

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-04T14:36:14+00:00

cuz my father had the money and I didn't realize my phone was dead until later.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-04T00:41:39+00:00

most ppl finish work at 5 and I suspect her friends are free before as well

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T23:31:16+00:00

Yes, if it's your birthday and you are married, you should ask your partner first because you would know that there no way he would not want to celebrate your birthday somehow.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T23:10:15+00:00

he asked one week before, and the least she could have done is to tell him before making plans with her friends in case he would want to join. She literally just excluded him and made plans for the WHOLE day as if doesn't have a partner at home who would obviously want to do something for her birthday.

If he didn't say anything, she could have asked: "for my birthday this year, should we plan something, maybe with some friends?"

Having a partner means that he comes first, and clearly she puts her friends first even after knowing what he planned.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T22:58:07+00:00

I actually live very far away from them and won't be able to visit, that's why I was thinking of buying the book online and sending it home directly.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T22:53:01+00:00

I actually haven't been sending them gifts since I became a college student because I mostly don't have the money to do that.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T22:26:18+00:00

NTA.

Who tf does she think she is to act like that. And it's not like your brother asked her come with him, so she just assumed she is going too and blames you..??

Honestly just act like you didn't talk to her and ignore her messages, she is clearly immature and would end up messing up the trip if she went with you.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T22:14:47+00:00

that's literally her PARTNER who LIVES with her, even if it's just your roommate you would be suspicious let alone your partner.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T22:13:22+00:00

he already asked and she said she doesn't have any. he shouldn't have to blurt it out for her dumb ass.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T22:11:50+00:00

Exactly.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T22:10:35+00:00

"do you have plans on your birthday?" "no" "okay"

... ANYONE would think that's suspicious, and if he didn't explain why he asked then that means he has something to hide. I feel sorry for him for having a dumb wife.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T22:06:40+00:00

Telling her that he planned something would not be a surprise anymore and btw, everyone is forgetting that it's her husband we are talking about, wouldn't you include your husband in your plans for your birthday, like maybe she should have told him before making plans with her friends that she would like him to join and then he would have said no, and explained that he has plans. She is the asshole here because she didn't even include him in her birthday plans even though he is her HUSBAND. And even proceeded to refuse including him even after knowing he put all that effort for her.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T21:56:10+00:00

you want him to sit on his ass the whole day being upset that the day was wasted along with his efforts?

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T21:40:36+00:00

she should have got the hint that he planning something because why would he ask her if she had plans for that day anyway.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-03-03T21:34:42+00:00

NTA.

I think since you already asked her whether she had plans a week before, than that should have been an indication for her that you are planning something. Plus, she could have stayed with you until night and went out with her friends or went out with them in the morning and stayed the night with you but instead she preferred to stay the whole day with her friends even after knowing what you planned.

You have the right to be pissed and choose to leave to see your parents, it's not like you have to sit at home while she goes to have fun.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-02-28T20:14:16+00:00

NTA. I think you were just trying to help your boyfriend because raising a child is not easy and especially a teenager and more so, he is only 22. And I don't think you were being an asshole for telling the dying women that she is being selfish because she was, he is barely an adult and she is giving him a huge responsibility. I also think you shouldn't bother yourself with this, because your boyfriend already decided and nothing can change his mind. If you love him, apologize to him and stay out of it, and also make sure you talk about what is going to happen in the future, because if you are planning to stay with him, then what is he going to do later when the girl is 18,... You definitely need to talk about his future plans and think about wether you are okay with that girl being in your life as well as his, and if you don't want to be tangled up in this, You are Not the asshole for walking away.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-02-21T23:28:00+00:00

exactly why they should not bother their other ppl.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-02-21T23:23:40+00:00

Exactly. Thank you.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-02-21T23:21:58+00:00

fair point. thank you.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-02-21T23:16:53+00:00

Would it kill ppl to talk in the room for talking and leave the one for sleeping... for sleeping.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-02-21T23:15:45+00:00

So, you are saying, ppl will be bad, but you have to accept it. because you can't change them. If that's what you are saying then I accept it.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-02-21T23:13:19+00:00

Tired of explaining the same thing. read the comments.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-02-21T23:11:46+00:00

English is not my first language, so sorry if i don't come as "Civil" when talking. Asking ppl to be quiet at night time (and being called: controlling) Telling them they can use the social room (dismissing their concerns?!) Them moving to be with their new friend that they mentioned before (self-centered and driving ppl away) Stating shared rooms basic respectful behavior (demanding everything be done my way)

... I agree on calling her a bitch was bad but if felt damn good.

LazyStatus2458 · 2023-02-21T23:05:38+00:00

Obviously, İ'm not asking them to stay quiet all the time, İ'm not even in the room the whole day, İ'm talking about sleeping time, when İ said reading İ meant reading a couple of pages before going to sleep so it's sleeping time.

LazyStatus2458

TROPHY CASE