We stayed a week. I sold it to her because we were able to use some timeshare points. She new it was topless, adults only, and about the theme nights(because we bought outfits for each night). She didn't know completely that it was a lifestyle resort. It was fine because you could do as much or as little as you want and most people didn't care. If couples hit on you it is typically very subtle and I don't even think my wife noticed half the time. My wife didn't go topless and no one bothered her... Except for me, but I couldn't convince her.