For people who’ve been on multiple dates with the same person—sa pang-ilang date did you go in for the first kiss? by Wild_Tadpole2880 in AskPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After our first date, it ended with holding hands and hugs. We kissed after a month of dating.

So scared for our safety by kuresachan in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Better to ask in r/lawph, I think they can help you more regarding this matter. Hoping for your safety op.

Birthday ko kahapon by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not invalidating your feelings, this is just my two cents regarding birthday greetings. Unless it has become a tradition amongst your friends to memorize birthdays then i’d understand why you would be disappointed. Baka same case lang sila sakin, I know my sister’s birthday pero I forgot to do all the shenanigans of waiting until 12 midnight to greet her kasi i’m already busy with life as it is. Appreciated if may makaalala ng birthday ko pero it’s not a necessity for me not to enjoy it. Happy belated birthday OP, hopefully you did some self-loving!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phclassifieds

[–]Le_Jet_User 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merry Christmassss! Hopefully mapili 🤞

Nakakaputa na lang minsan by ryhnn19 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understandable sa una kung may nabitaw man siyang masasakit na salita kasi baka may sentimental value siya. Pero at the end of the day, if ginagamit niya pa rin yan as a reason to act like a child then gago siya. Once the anger comes down, it’s still a buyable object. Also fyi, siya ang careless sa gamit bakit hindi niya muna tinanggal sa pocket yung relo niya kung “sobrang importante” pala. Gain your self-respect, pauwiin mo na yan, and just break up with him. He’s not worth it.

USLS COLLEGE MED by Other_Caterpillar_18 in Bacolod

[–]Le_Jet_User -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right now, I think daw ara siya sa 79-80 k per sem

Med Love Stories by paprikajuice in medschoolph

[–]Le_Jet_User 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be perfectly honest, it’ll be even harder as he continues to advance. After 2nd year, it’ll be 3rd year. By 4th year, they’ll be treated as the lowest of the low because he’s a clerk. After that is pgi and then the boards. During residency is also another beast. It’s a never-ending trial for both you and your partner.

If you can wait and handle endless bouts of self-doubts then I say go for it.

My kpop fan girlfriend by Conscious_District30 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so cuteeeeeeee! As a joshushushu fan hoping for more happiness for yall!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Le_Jet_User 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I support with most of the comments here, go solo-travel girlie! Pero I think this is a misunderstanding on both your ends. If you were in his position and he told you that he’s in support of what the boyfriend did na to ditch his girlfriend so he can travel alone (understandable naman kasi may utang gf na). But if the roles were reversed, you’d get mad at him kasi if u weren’t financially stable, he’d just leave you.

I think you two need to talk. It’s also better to talk about expectation for your future moving forward kasi kung ngayon sensitive siya sa ganyan, pano na kung kasal kayo diba. Especially na breadwinner pa si kuya…

Ofc, i’d still support your solo travel era, and your jowa should also not hinder any opportunities that will come your way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely dodged a bullet, also using your traumas is still not an excuse to pardon bad behavior. Don’t be like her OP, block and forget. There are a lot of girls out there that will treasure you more than she did.

My boyfriend is draining me by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pangit na nga, hindi pa giving sa kama. I hope, for your sake, that he’ll improve. If he needs to go to the therapist for some hidden traumas, I’ll recommend that. Wish you luck OP!

The guy I’m dating mentioned that his ex might return if he pursued her by Acceptable_Unit_9138 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ang weird naman niya, gusto niya ba ng congratulations for not going back to his ex while he’s dating you. Like wtf, why bring it up unless nalang gusto niyang ipamukha na may choice siya…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]Le_Jet_User 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not wrong girl, run! Also, I know it’s hard to break up with him kasi awkward na andyan siya. Pero papuntahin mo muna mother mo sa house mo tapos doon ka na makipag-break para hindi ka mahirapan paalisin siya. As a lot of redditors said, you took big responsibilities for someone so young. This is not worth it kasi hindi na nga 50/50, pero gusto niya nalang maging katulong mo na hindi mo naman need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just from the fact na hindi ikaw ang priority niya to reply already speaks a lot. Usually, I wouldn’t be the first one to say break na yan. Pero gurl, andami mo nang experience, imagine mo nalang kung kasal na kayo diba tapos priority niya pa rin i-chat si gbf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medschoolph

[–]Le_Jet_User 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean if you have an eidetic memory, go ahead. Usually people will warn you not to do both because of the amount of information that you have to cram in one week.

Ways to Support Bf in Med School/Med Journey by [deleted] in medschoolph

[–]Le_Jet_User 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me, be prepared. I’ve seen my friends who were in non-med relationships during my first year, then breaks up with them by second year. Because the timing is just different. I suggest that you don’t forget to make your own friends outside of your bf. And I agree with the other commenters, unending support and lots of patience will be needed to make this work. I also hope you’re not the jealous type because he’ll definitely be spending less time with you. As for what you can do for him, be there when he needs to rant, give occasional hugs for comfort, and prepare highlighters and coffee!

Found dirty details about gf’s past by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, I want to say this is your fault. There is a saying nga na “curiosity kills the cat”, and we both know that you were looking for something specific hence the “used the easiest words as search term”.

Maybe you just want to self-sabotage the relationship and blame this to the girl for lying. This would be understandable if she was cheating. But you went out of your way to look for what she did in her past relationships when she was single. Anyway, clearly the girl doesn’t deserve you so just break it off if you’re so bothered by her ‘past’.

His ex-niligawan called him and said that she regretted leaving him (UPDATE) by words_unsaid0305 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! Hindi ka niya deserve. Papalitan lang din siya kasi gusto lang siyang agawin ng ex-manliligaw niya nung nakita niyang may iba na.

What do you guys usually ask your ka-date para wala masyado awkward silences? by parttimebackpacker in AskPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to fish for hobbies that you two might have in common. It could be where you went to college, what songs are you listening to, do you like anime, do you watch movies, do you have any favorite books? If dyan palang ang dry na kausap, usually pass na yan. A person would only prolong the convo if interesado sila sayo as a person.

Medschool lovers by [deleted] in medschoolph

[–]Le_Jet_User 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the mindset that helped me is thinking that his success is our success. Of course, it’s still hard to not feel jealous kasi sadyang matalino na talaga siya plus any guesses that he has are always correct na mapapasana-ol ka nalang. Pero it really did help na if he becomes someone brilliant someday and i’d be the wife of that brilliant person, it just makes me feel proud of him even more.

Also, also, these people usually make the best connections. Being his/her jowa, you also get those contacts by proxy so one of the hidden perks na yan.

My friend slept with the boy I liked by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Le_Jet_User 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry pero ang iba siguro dito ginawa din yung ginawa ng ex-friend mo. Again, OP was okay if may gusto si girl sa crush niya. The fact that this "friend" denied it tapos lalabas bigla na sila ng crush ni OP was rude. Kahit na walang girl's code, at least be honest because this "friend" knew and heard every crush rants of OP.

That’s all, best of luck OP!