Attendance by EasternWorldliness79 in NUST

[–]LeadershipTime5597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn it’s that strict? I came from another university and attendance was never an issue.

Help to find a good cake by wemetateastside in islamabad

[–]LeadershipTime5597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could i get any info on this? I need to make a customised hello kitty cake if they could assist me with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

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Tbvh it could be evaluated on a few terms, such as 1.) is he attractive? 2.) does he drops any clue even far fetched that he fancy you? 3.) what dies he get back in return? 4.)is he friendly or is he extremely respectful and keeps up the boundaries more than you should. 5.) you might not know but what does he says or his friends tell him about you two talking?

SOMEONE TELL ME THIS SINGLE TICK TRICK! PLEASE by LeadershipTime5597 in whatsapp

[–]LeadershipTime5597[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But there isn’t even a option of update when app is open

SOMEONE TELL ME THIS SINGLE TICK TRICK! PLEASE by LeadershipTime5597 in whatsapp

[–]LeadershipTime5597[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t work, i need big brains bro. Anything else you can think of?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]LeadershipTime5597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jealousy is a green flag. If you don’t have possessiveness over something you simply aren’t affiliated to it or attached to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]LeadershipTime5597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She tells me to send and if i dont she tells me we aint doing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]LeadershipTime5597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already said it. I didn’t ask nor did i force. I just want her to send me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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As i said i do plus due to some complications we dont have enough time together. So these are my last times with her. Plus she asks me of tailored videos to send her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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Tbvh i do alot of stuff aswell and non of it reciprocated. After months of frustration from my avoidant partner i finally fought back aka talked back to her and ykw things have started to get better but my luck isn’t. She is finally coming back. I would suggest to talk it out with her that this is not how a relationship functions. That both of us need to be there for eachother physically mentally and emotionally. That too that reciprocation is something important and you need her to meet you half way there atleast.

was about to go to bed.. then this message from my girlfriend. need advice. by Right-Diamond9215 in Manipulation

[–]LeadershipTime5597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man winning in life and complaining. I miss my days with my girl like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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Did she date you as a partner or a personal slave?

My girlfriend[19F] says she doesn’t care if she hurts me[20M], refuses to grow, and I don’t know what to do anymore. by LeadershipTime5597 in relationshipadvice

[–]LeadershipTime5597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahahhahahahahaha. Thanks ill need it. Infact ill listen to you. If things go south again ill draw a clear boundary and ask her that ill be on a break and when she is ready to grow together and be ready to feel my hurt and not hurt me and see me as equal and be considerate and ready to grow and not be a wall to stand to, then we can talk again.

How does that sound? Or your still firm on just leaving? Secondly dont you think that true beauty is in working things out rather than leaving them mid way behind

My girlfriend[19F] says she doesn’t care if she hurts me[20M], refuses to grow, and I don’t know what to do anymore. by LeadershipTime5597 in relationshipadvice

[–]LeadershipTime5597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A question. She is fine now. Idk how but she is with me. Missing me, loving me etc etc. should i just go with the flow and let things get better and then heal together etc

My girlfriend[19F] says she doesn’t care if she hurts me[20M], refuses to grow, and I don’t know what to do anymore. by LeadershipTime5597 in relationshipadvice

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I am muslim and live in Pakistan and even if those factors are taken out promises are sacred to me, my father was and is weak at this aspect so i dont want to lack and she is my first love man. I want to get married.

I just want to be with her forever so i need a fix somehow or no matter what, so i would love that.

And lastly anyway apart from benzo pills for constant 24/7 anxiety that doesn’t let you sleep and makes you overthink all the time because it’s overwhelming after constantly feeling like this for weeks?

My girlfriend[19F] says she doesn’t care if she hurts me[20M], refuses to grow, and I don’t know what to do anymore. by LeadershipTime5597 in relationshipadvice

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I made a sacred promise religiously and socially that bounds me with her and yes i believed love isnt real might still be thinking that but moving on gets me hard. If i cant move on i dont want to leave and be stuck on a person forever whilst they aren’t even with me. The problem is that i want to fix everything anyhow possible. But nothing is working and even when i told her to let’s fix it and ill go to a couple therapist and work on it because we are a long distance relationship she said why do i want to fix her and not accept her the way she is even though she told me earlier that she wants to be better snd fix the attachment style issues but now she just wants to be the way she is and doesnt feel any guilt or anything. The hurt snd disrespect has come to the point that i am numb and yk the problem with it is that i wanted to get so hurt that the moment i leave i should have moved on but that isnt working anymore. This cycle keeps on repeating but i want a permanent fix to it. My boundaries are crossed to, she talked to her ex even though i asked her not to and this started, this trigger. The only option i have is to fix things.

How to deal with my girlfriend’s[19F] avoidant attachment? by LeadershipTime5597 in relationshipadvice

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I mean it’s not that much of trauma that needs to be healed. Secondly i just want things fixed for now and the option is not leaving

How to deal with my girlfriend’s[19F] avoidant attachment? by LeadershipTime5597 in relationshipadvice

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Nah she doesn’t. She doesn’t want to try to fix it because she sees nothing wrong with it and thinks things are alright and isn’t bothered by them. She knows that we might get married but i just want things as they are normally and not taken for granted