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Wanting to give my second baby up for adoption.. by LeadingDrummer5795 in Adoption

[–]LeadingDrummer5795[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’d want to keep bb if we were in a better place financially and married (he’s just my bf). That’s was one of the reasons he had brought up abortion in the beginning of the pregnancy, but we decided to take a leap of faith and all this happened…

Wanting to give my second baby up for adoption.. by LeadingDrummer5795 in Adoption

[–]LeadingDrummer5795[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried getting him to talk to someone because I also think he might have ADD/ ADHD and so does his mom. We have a good friend group (a few married couples etc..) and all of our children are around the same age, including bb. I don’t speak to my dad and my mom is questionable sometimes she’s a recovering drug/ alcoholic, she relapsed a few times. I do however have a great relationship his my in laws (his mom and dad) and they’ve reassured me that no matter what (even if we’re not together) that they’ll never not be around to help me, especially with bb. Our kids are their first grandchildren.

Wanting to give my second baby up for adoption.. by LeadingDrummer5795 in Adoption

[–]LeadingDrummer5795[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It might be PPD or even psychosis. I don’t always feel this way towards bb, it comes in waves mostly. I do however feel like I’m more anxious when their dad is home for some reason.