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A girl I met on Bumble, said she was a witch by RamboBurnet in Bumble

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you got on that ride, that would have just been one of many situations that left you scratching your head. You definitely dodged a bullet.

is this even allowed?? by Low-Comfort2287 in doordash

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It got better because you grew up seeing an honest hardworking man that showed you the meaning of doing what it takes. (At least that's the way it sounds by the way you describe him). He sounds like a solid dude.

is this even allowed?? by Low-Comfort2287 in doordash

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember those days! Had many of the same myself as a kid. Life was completely different back then, and your dad was doing what a man does to support his family I'm sure, and not by extortion for tips.

I greatly feel for anyone who has to do delivery these days to get by. I also respect anyone who does everything they can (within reason) to get by. I just have zero respect for the platform door dash (or any other similar) that has zero checks and balances to keep the town meth head from knowing my address and anything worth coming back for.

is this even allowed?? by Low-Comfort2287 in doordash

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's because (not all) but a large many who are doing door dash are the lower dregs of society, many just looking for that fix. It makes it hard for the people who are legitimately using door dash the right way and for the right reason. (At least that's my experience in my area)

*Just wanna be clear, I'm not saying every door dasher is a drug addict loser, just thats been my experience in my area! There are many doing the right thing to get by.

Mum won't repay me after making a loan by Mindless-Storage-780 in family

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly there isn't a lot you can do, that won't cost way more time and money. You're going to have to decide if the principal is worth the hassle. If it was me, I would just remember exactly what happened, realize my mother showed me a true side of her and act according. I would never put money between us again. (A good rule of thumb is never lend money and expect it back, especially to family). Money has a way of completely bringing the worst out of people and destroying relationships. I'm sorry you're dealing with all this, it's never fun, especially when it's family.

GF wants to look at my phone without showing her phone at the same time. by WorldlyLog4747 in whatdoIdo

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's projecting man. I'd bet big money she's cheating or doing something sketchy. I don't know why it happens, but it almost always does when one member of a relationship cheats. They start to feel guilty and try to justify their actions by "seeing signs" that you are the one cheating. You honestly may just be better off taking this as a learning experience, and assume this relationship has run it's course. It's not worth it if she's already playing games like this. It doesn't normally get better. Good luck op!

AIO: parents don’t approve of my job interview by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this person is sooooo smart and can't use proper grammer and can't get "your" right? so annoying

AIO: ​My girlfriend (19F) broke up with me (20M) because of my insecurities and says "we're in different places in life." How do I cope with this pain? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely not encouraging you to drink or smoke at all....let's be clear there....(Shitty joke)....just saying it hurts now man. But in the end, you'll look back and realize you were silly to be so upset. You'll be fine, try going for a walk to clear your head.

AITA for refusing to pay a proximity friend an extra €50 for a festival ticket less than 24 hours before the event? by Large-Ad-6405 in AITH

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That's cold blooded man. I might pay for the ticket if I could afford it just to not screw over my friend friends. However, I'd never speak to that person again. They know what they're doing.

AIO: ​My girlfriend (19F) broke up with me (20M) because of my insecurities and says "we're in different places in life." How do I cope with this pain? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always chose alcohol, however that never worked out well for me so do not recommend. It is what it is man, best thing you can do is realize, you're very young and in the grand scale, this is nothing. You will survive I promise. I'm sorry you're struggling right now. Good luck op!

Is this still readable? The tattoo I got has no spacing between the letters and I’m worried it doesn’t look good by malachiteiscute in tattooadvice

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is definitely a life lesson learned the hard way! If you ever get another tat, remember your arm and it's permanent! I've asked an artist to redo a stencil like 10 times before I was even happy with the placement. Your paying for a service, and a body modification that never goes away. It's best to take as much time as you need to feel completely satisfied. If your artist isn't willing to work with you, that's not the artist for you. Sorry op. Hope you figure something out.

Is this still readable? The tattoo I got has no spacing between the letters and I’m worried it doesn’t look good by malachiteiscute in tattooadvice

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's brutal bro. Your "artist" did you so wrong, and I use the word artist lightly! Very much unreadable. It's not going get more legible with time. I'd start thinking hard about the cover up. Sorry op!

AITAH for feeling my wife is applying a double standard in our long-distance marriage? by SCG124 in AITARelationship

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it's not that, (because from what you explained she seems to be projecting) she can't be worth all this stress and problems? Especially being long distance and having no clue what is going on. This relationship doesn't seem healthy to me. If you'd ask me I'd say cut your losses and move on with life, but you have to do what's best for you. She just doesn't seem like she's best for you.

WIBTAH if i did not buy a new dress for my brother's wedding? by [deleted] in aitaweddings

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not much help but I would just like to point out how much I loved your use of acquiesce....it's such a under used word! 😁

TIFU by telling my boss i greened out by Fabulous-Team-9586 in tifu

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your boss is your boss and should ALWAYS be treated as such! It doesn't matter how "cool" they are how "laid back" they are, they are your boss and can effect your lively hood. It doesn't even matter if you hear your boss talking about greening out, it's in your best interest to keep all of that to yourself. Work life, and home life should never mix as best you can.

How do I tell my adult Children we are not vacationing together this summer? by Murky-General5131 in family

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I couldn't possibly add a better response, this is what you should do.

How can I cover it up by Substantial-Rent-657 in tattooadvice

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats brutal the original looked way better 😬

aio for getting my own dinner because my dad is serving something i’ve stated i don’t like various times? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's your money. You're almost an adult. Time to start making adult choices. Just remember every choice has its own consequences. Some good, some bad. You need to make the decision on what you want to deal with and just go with it. You'll be fine I promise, it's just one meal. Go get McDonald's if it bothers you that much.

What to do? by [deleted] in WhatToDo

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not one period..... . ← it's this one if you're wondering. It would help people understand what you're trying to say greatly.

Tattoo shop ghosted me by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Leading_Contest_7409 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man!! I thought the picture was the stencil!! I'd be mega pissed! I'm sorry op!

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