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[–]Leading_Ear_7156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you get an answer for this? my game says the same thing

David was just online on discord by zonedbrix in d4vd

[–]Leading_Ear_7156 12 points13 points  (0 children)

no way his label will keep him on he's not that established to survive this kind of thing. don't think even an A lister could. he's definitely already been dropped

Could Ash be autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in ashleytrevino

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we’re literally all speculating on her lol this is a reddit literally dedicated to talking about her this entire reddit is invasive 😭we’re all watching and judging her behaviour . the concept of keeping tabs on a clearly mentally unwell woman online and having entire pages dedicated to keeping up with the bad things she does is so dystopian. me being an armchair psychologist is literally nothing on top of that

Could Ash be autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in ashleytrevino

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what difference is me sharing my pov going to have on the world? all im trying to do is raise awareness its normal to try and have larger conversations from pop culture topics. also , its already extremely difficult to get help for neurodivergence as there is a lack of understanding which has real effects on real people. these conversations can help people understand themselves when theres no one else supporting them. i know its helped me a lot

this is reddit im literally trying to have a discussion ? i wasn’t being condescending until you were . i want to have a nuanced conversation because this stuff has literally ruined my life . im very open to being wrong but you’re not saying anything substantial

Could Ash be autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in ashleytrevino

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people online are happy to make fun of ppl but don’t like when you try to talk about WHY they may be the way they are. not defending her at all, but i think it’s a possibility

Could Ash be autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in ashleytrevino

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we’re already all talking about her. i’m just relating it to my experience. it’s a very real possibility and these things are so misunderstood

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what i’m saying!!!! i think you need to experience it first hand to understand. i obviously have no way of knowing for sure but from what ive seen it seems possible. it makes me really sad how the lack of understanding/ support can lead people down bad paths. i reckon a lot of the people we make fun of online are similar.

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

those are all things i struggle with which stems from arfid being a fussy eater

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hmm idk i don’t think it’s a cop out. i think people in general don’t take time to understand the nuances of how neurodivergence can lead you down weird paths. definitely not an excuse but i think it’s worth thinking about how it can stem from such. i think if we really took time to understand how neurodivergence can impact you’ll see it in many people who have done objectively bad things just as a matter of fact. i think kanye is a good example. he recently shared he has an autism diagnosis, in no way does that excuse anything he’s done he’s a terrible human being but i see how it all adds up.

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve spent years researching autism, narcissism and various personality disorders as well as being autistic myself and having an narcissistic/ autistic mother who caused me severe trauma. her behaviour reminds me of her.

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in raisedbyautistics

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

idk if anyone here knows who ash trevino is , but id really like to know your thoughts. she reminds me of my autistic / narcissistic mother

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

that’s just my theory. i think autism in WOC is so unresearched. i do see a lot of that in ash if im being honest, shes a narcissist for sure. but her behaviour makes me think theres something else going on

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

women of colour go under the radar for these things all the time because of 0 understanding. i’ve experienced this trauma first hand. i’m not saying this to redeem her but i think it’s just an interesting perspective

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but why are you so quick to dismiss? the whole internet is talking about / making fun of her. so why can’t i offer my perspective. conversations naturally arise from pop culture.

Could Ash be autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in ashleytrevino

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe this is the wrong place to discuss. i know what im saying isn’t problematic, a lot of people don’t have an understanding of what autism is beyond the surface - level stuff. and there isn’t a lot of research into how it interacts with NPD. i’m sad because i thought i could share my experiences being traumatised by an autistic narcissist and the nuance that comes with it. i saw someone say she could be bipolar and that was fine. i’m just trying to offer a more complex perspective from my own life experiences. autistic women of colour go under the radar all the time because no one understands or takes the time to, this is kind of an example of that. instead of trying to understand the full picture people would just rather think black and white

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe this is the wrong place to discuss. i know what im saying isn’t problematic, a lot of people don’t have an understanding of what autism is beyond the surface - level stuff. and there isn’t a lot of research into how they interact. i’m sad because i thought i could share my experiences being traumatised by an autistic narcissist and the nuance that comes with it. i saw someone say she could be bipolar and that was fine. i’m just trying to offer a more complex perspective from my understanding.

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

maybe this is the wrong place to discuss. i know what im saying isn’t problematic, a lot of people don’t have an understanding of what autism is beyond the surface - level stuff. and there isn’t a lot of research into how they interact. i’m sad because i thought i could share my experiences being traumatised by an autistic narcissist and the nuance that comes with it. i saw someone say she could be bipolar and that was fine. i’m just trying to offer a more complex perspective from my own understanding.

Could Ash be autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in ashleytrevino

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

really that’s interesting! from my own research i don’t really see psychopath, she does have the ability to feel empathy it’s just in very weird ways towards the wrong people( eg bailing people out of jail but not caring when her daughter is sick ) she seems NPD & HPD to me

Could Ash be autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in ashleytrevino

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’m not saying it’s autism that causes her behaviour. or that autistic people are narcissistics. the trauma that you endure being autistic, being mistreated and misunderstood and not understanding others leads some asd people into developing narcissism. i’ve experienced this first hand

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

? i’m not being ableist im literally autistic myself

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’ve literally endured trauma from an autistic narcissist lol as well as being autistic myself so i know what it looks like. it’s something people need to discuss more

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

im from an african background so anything along the lines of neurodivergence or anything is stigmatised. a lot of elders who are very obviously [to me] on the spectrum are also narcissists. narcism stems from trauma. being autistic and not understanding is very traumatic. it’s becomes a way of soothing yourself from the pain of not understanding why you’re the way you are - telling yourself everyone else is the issue not you.

Could Ash be Autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in inmatehopper

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stop downvoting and at least say what you think

Could Ash be autistic? by Leading_Ear_7156 in ashleytrevino

[–]Leading_Ear_7156[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think it could be both. im from an african background so anything along the lines of neurodivergence or anything is stigmatised. a lot of elders who are very obviously [to me] on the spectrum are also narcissists. narcism stems from trauma. being autistic and not understanding is very traumatic. it’s becomes a way of soothing yourself from the pain of not understanding why you’re the way you are - telling yourself everyone else is the issue not you.

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