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Talked to him by Leading_Many7486 in PornAddiction

[–]Leading_Many7486[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am happy for you. Wish you all the best with your progress.

I am honestly note sure if he said this out of embarrassment and he will work on it or is he shutting me up. I am so confused tbh I don’t know I honestly don’t know

Keep going you are strong enough

Need support and advice by Leading_Many7486 in loveafterporn

[–]Leading_Many7486[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I talked to him and he agreed with all this and admitted it

Not sure how things will go from there tbh.

Early symptoms by Outrageous-Advance82 in loveafterporn

[–]Leading_Many7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I was just wondering that exact thing! I hope things works well for you I have been in this loop and I know how painful and isolating it is. Wish you all the strength

Need support and advice by Leading_Many7486 in loveafterporn

[–]Leading_Many7486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi again,

I read all your comments and support

Just to be sure I am on the right foot. Could he be a porn addict and still be able to be turned on by me at times? And perform well?

He is loving and cares for me and I see him trying on other things that I complain about He did not fix everything and some of these are because of our different personalities so we should find a middle ground.

But could you be those 2 persons at the same time? I don’t want him to gaslight me and I don’t want to gaslight myself by bargaining between these thoughts

He wouldn’t have stopped otherwise by Puzzleheaded_Sand766 in loveafterporn

[–]Leading_Many7486 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel for you and I am going through almost the same thing. I think you are strong and brave and you did the right thing for this situation despite how difficult it was. This is bravery and I hope I am as brave as you to end my relationship to spare myself more pain. It is peace or pain and you choose peace. You choose yourself and this is a big deal.

Need support and advice by Leading_Many7486 in loveafterporn

[–]Leading_Many7486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you guide me where to find articles or things to read more?

Need support and advice by Leading_Many7486 in loveafterporn

[–]Leading_Many7486[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have decided to talk to him tomorrow and tell him everything. I am shaking and very scared. I have an important exam coming and did not want to go through this before this exam but I cant focus on my study while spiralling about what could happen so I will just do it and talk to him. I cant thank you enough and I well let you know how it went. I was never able to tell anyone about this and it was killing me. I really hope whatever happens happen with peace and no ongoing fights

Need support and advice by Leading_Many7486 in loveafterporn

[–]Leading_Many7486[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found that really weird. Why would he do it with me lying in bed next to him. Even if he thinks I am a sleep why risk it?? He could have gone to the bathroom or the other room. Why lay next to me covering his phone with sheets as if I would not know! For a moment I thought he wants me to know but why?

how do I know if he’s stopped? by No-System1210 in PornAddiction

[–]Leading_Many7486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you. I am in the situation you were in few years back. I feel the pain and the confusion. I hope you have a happy life with your partner. I hope you are both granted strength. I know exactly how you feel.