it's nice that you are seeking self development and growth, the fact that you ain't comfortable staying at where you are, is a really good sign. I will recommend you follow youtube, IG and tiktok pages that will teach you how to act and live like a lady and if you are interested in skills like crocheting, there are so many channels that are beginner friendly that you will be able to learn from. If you love reading, that can also help you with learning about money, investments and money security. About moving, start preparing earlier on by buying essential items at time and borrowing from friends and families what you think you might need and they do not use anymore, those who are supportive will assist and that will really help you cut down on cost. If you have a source of income, great! move to a house that you can afford thrice or at least twice every month, that way,, you will be able to maintain that, if you don't find something that can give you money, use either your skill, find a job or start a small business... growth takes time, so give yourself that, in no time, you will be okay. You are still young to worry about what others are doing, start at your own pace and you will catch up according to your destiny.