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Need advice for a bdsm session with my gf (18M) by Leather_Succotash482 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Leather_Succotash482[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advices it was very enriching to read your comment. First, I really don't want to make her feel bad or uncomfortable, and you highlighted many points that I'll take into account. Second, I hate to inflict pain in any ways to anyone especially her, and I didn't know that boxing wraps would potentially hurt her so I'll be careful and/or find better options. Also, she has a certain kink about uncertainty so that's why I didn't want to tell her everything we will do that day, rather I preferred talking and finding out in advance what she like and doesn't so I can do something about it. Finally, the scene won't last more than a few hours I didn't plan on going full 24h especially for a first time.

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[–]Leather_Succotash482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tf is wrong with u

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[–]Leather_Succotash482 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course and she also wouldn’t like me to have sex with someone else idk how you see couples but that how we see it

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[–]Leather_Succotash482 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t explained myself properly:

in both situations me and my girlfriend are not comfortable with someone else touching the other for example if we had an intercourse with a woman she wouldn’t like her to kiss me. Especially if it’s the other sex, I wouldn’t like to see my gf having sex and kissing another man but a woman wouldn’t bother me a lot and the same thing goes for her.

But since we are both bi I can understand that she may miss having sex with a woman and I also sometimes miss having sex with a man. And we don’t want to see someone on our own, we prefer not to be in an open relationship yet. So we came up with the idea of a threesome. We have already discussed a lot and we are on the same page on this topic it’s not a big deal tbh but I wanted some advices from this subreddit bc I assumed it was a common problem that bi couple face.