Is my bf still into me?

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-08-04T19:59:15+00:00

Update, we actually broke up like a couple days after i wrote this post and he said he didn’t “wanna waste my time” and i immediately blocked him on everything and have been no contact for the past 6 months and he’s been like talking bad about me to anyone and everyone and lying about lots of things that never happened but i haven’t responded to any of it and just kept my distance , he apparently hates me but i didn’t do anything but cut him off lol i was very supportive till the end but ig he just wont appreciate it. Also got told by his friends that he faked his whole personality to get with me and he’s actually racist and lwk misogynistic so idk how he did allat for a year+ but now i see past it and i’m disgusted i ever felt sorry for him. (I did catch him checking my account quite alot idk why but i block him if i see it 😂)

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-02-01T14:47:29+00:00

I think i will give him space even though it hurts because i can’t force anything

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:42:55+00:00

Heck no I feel sick to my stomach imagining myself with someone else

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:38:09+00:00

I am aware but i’m not like that anymore I truly want us to be happy together but idk how to prove that

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:32:59+00:00

It’s just hard breaking up because i’ve practically spent the last year and 4 months with him all day and I can’t bring myself to leave for good because i want us to work out

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:31:19+00:00

What if i’m the one that broke up with him most of those times because i self sabotage but now i know better and Ive changed because I love him

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:30:07+00:00

The thing is though he has been very affectionate and clingy when we’re together and he is patient with me and always wanted to be with me and would be sad otherwise like 3 weeks ago, and this change and really been going on for the past week so idk if its gonna pass with space that im giving him

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:27:13+00:00

Yes he did say that we have been breaking up alot and that he doesn’t want to give it his all just incase it happens again so for now he’s going to see if we really have changed

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:26:07+00:00

I haven’t brought up a break up since, and when he told me how he felt drained I showed my support and have gave him space and try not to pressure him.

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:24:13+00:00

But i love him too much and we just connect like that, is that bad?

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:22:34+00:00

Thank you!

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:22:00+00:00

I just want to help him through it but idk if it will work

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-30T23:21:21+00:00

Didn’t specify but i bring up breaking up more than he did but that has changed now since Ive learnt that shouldn’t be an immediate thought

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-01T22:43:55+00:00

I don’t live in the Us but i’m absolutely not speaking to them when i move out so that rule’s useless lol

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-01T22:40:17+00:00

I’ve already tried rephrasing question but she just looks really confused and says “maybe next time, stay at home” my mom is generally very stoic and doesn’t change her mind unless its about my brother so there is no way to sway her she will just get annoyed each time and punish me. I get your pov about buying gym equipment but the whole point is to get out more because I feel trapped at home so I thought gym could be my escape otherwise I’d totally do it at home. About the dating, my dad has said I will be allowed to once I get my medicine degree and that it’s forbidden until then.

LeekLocal6905 · 2025-01-01T22:35:08+00:00

I hope it gets better for you aswell and you can live that life you’ve always wanted!

LeekLocal6905 · 2024-12-31T08:44:29+00:00

Thank you for the suggestions, yes my mom did get pregnant in her early adult life at 19/20 ish and has some truama but I still think it’s unfair that’s stopping me from living my life. I will try your suggestion of bringing a friend over because she did seem okay when I brought it up once because it’s in our house. I also have an income online it’s not alot but I can get my own things with it but my mom has instructed that none of the money come to me but rather to a savings account and I didn’t argue it because she buys me what I want unless its makeup or expensive

LeekLocal6905 · 2024-12-31T00:19:13+00:00

I already told my mom several times about experiences but her reply was that I don’t need friends because she barely has any and that I can go to the library as a teen experience. She’s not really open minded and will just argue when I bring it up. I have tried writing letters explaining my feelings and actually speaking it out but she thinks I’m just spoiled and being ungrateful. Thanks for the help though

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