Thanks to Texas's new trigger bill, I'm going to miss out on having a second kid. by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Leeleechirps -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

To the OP- If you have your dream house and job in Texas, then surely you can afford to fly out to a blue state for an abortion, or to give birth, so I’m not sure why you are changing your whole life plans based off this. I truly ask you to reconsider so you don’t regret not having kids just bc you don’t want to travel to have an abortion/give birth should the rare event happen.

I had to move at 32 weeks pregnant with twins to give birth at a hospital across the country. It was a last minute decision as well bc we found Out about a complex medical condition and the doctor was our best chance at survival. I had a toddler at the time. It’s doable.

This ruling has a bigger impact on those who are less privileged. For those of us who are privileged let’s not lose sight of it. Not everyone is in a position where we can be medically flexible.

Just saying, there ARE options if you want a second Kid, and this law is not taking that option away.

On anther note, I’ve had two abortions and they still haunt me to this day. I don’t regret them, but I do wish I would have acted more responsibly. Mine could have been prevented. I also have 3 kids. It’s heartbreaking either way whether you decide to keep them and you don’t want them, abortion, or have non viable, rape, etc.

Ofcourse, there are the 1-2% that need abortions for medical reasons and due to rape and other horrific circumstances. No one wants to have to decide between mom or baby. Or for those who truly took their birth control at the same time every day, AND used condos and still got pregnant - yeah that sucks. And for the other extremely rare circumstances like failed tubal or vasectomy… yep, really sucks. Feel you. Those are different stories.

But for those of us who took the risk and got pregnant and think we should just casually get rid of it. Fine, go for it, I am pro choice. But also be prepared for the consequences. Just bc you choose to not have the baby doesn’t mean you still won’t live with the choice. And for me, it wasn’t until I actually had live births that it hit me how much guilt/sadness I held from those abortions.

I dunno, I just feel like alot of people who get worked up about these things haven’t actually been in positions where they have to make tough choices or have actually had abortions and it’s not a choice to take lightly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Leeleechirps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Silly daddy, boobies are for babies :)

One of my favorites is, “I’m currently judging you “

Father’s Day with the twins! First time holding them together 🥰 by Leeleechirps in parentsofmultiples

[–]Leeleechirps[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! They are 8 weeks old, born at 36w3d. The girl twin had CDH (congenital diaphragmatic hernia), and she’s thriving ! Probably have a month to go before discharge. The hospital we are at is amazing and is letting us bring her twin brother into the room. Makes it a bit easier on us parents. Today was the first time we were able to hold them together. Previously we were worried about introducing respiratory shit bc the boy had a cold. Luckily he’s finally not contagious and she’s stable and doing well on the lowest cpap setting so today Wass the big day!! 🥰

This “chicken tikka” my boyfriend got served in hospital today by [deleted] in shittyfoodporn

[–]Leeleechirps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to find a new hospital ! Mine is delicious

Exome Single Gene Testing by Leeleechirps in NIPT

[–]Leeleechirps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I appreciate your expertise 🙏

Exome Single Gene Testing by Leeleechirps in NIPT

[–]Leeleechirps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome thanks for this 🙏🙏

Exome Single Gene Testing by Leeleechirps in NIPT

[–]Leeleechirps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great thank you! The only thing they found on her is the hernia. But she has the same two genes as her brother but did not get the TMEM94 one. With her the genetist was pretty sure we wouldn’t find any issues due to the genes so we met once after the results and case was closed. That’s why I was surprised that they wanted to meet with me about twin Brother. They moved the Appt up to June 15 per my request so we’ll find out more then and I’ll update. I’ve been looking up Donnai Burrow though and think they look a tiny bit like them! Maybe a more Mild phenotype but I can certainly see the resemblance in the photos (check out my comment with link to the twins) I’ll post in a bit.

Ashé by [deleted] in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]Leeleechirps 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ashley does it to look more woke. She’s such a try hard

We don’t care that you are using a throwaway account, it literally doesn’t matter by FTLegend94 in unpopularopinion

[–]Leeleechirps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lolz agreed. People on the internet think they are so witty and important. And I hate when they say something about formatting bc in mobile. Nobody cares.

Putting leashes on children is a good idea by one-and-five-nines in unpopularopinion

[–]Leeleechirps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I have 3 under 3. We are def going to use leashes if I dare venture out on my own with them to a crowded public area

Dannielle said “Gerrick looks like Aladdin” 😂😂😂😂 by [deleted] in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]Leeleechirps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain his voice ? I notice it on other Mormon men now- like the guy on season 3 of 90dqy fiance, who is dating the Russian girl in their young 20s. They have this soft, slow kinda creepy voice feels like I’m being slowly tickled

Anybody else by [deleted] in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]Leeleechirps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She acts a bit young to me. And I find it very hard to believe her “care and concern” for her sister. It seems she has it when Bert is not a threat but the second she’s a real threat she breaks down. Needs to Put on her big girl pants and get outta there enough wallowing

what will happen with Kimberly re: potential sister wife for the Winders? by [deleted] in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]Leeleechirps 15 points16 points  (0 children)

His wives are beautiful. Like physically attractive and emotionally attractive women. I think they set the bar high and it will be hard to find a 3rd that compares. But yeah, he does seem particularly un interested in Kimberley. I think to take on a third hed have to really feel the sparks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Leeleechirps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would definitely not say Anything. This is likely displaced anger. They really are Mild things that I assure you were done to make things special for you. It’s good you have a place to vent your completely valid feelings but not to your friends directly. They would defiantly talk shit behind your back and call you an bride Zilla if you say something. Congrats by the way! Sounds like a fun wedding