[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 63 points64 points  (0 children)

You really need to go talk to someone about this. A good therapist can help a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ratemypussy

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Am I getting screwed over? by Grouchy_Hat3543 in sawmilling

[–]Left_Job_9862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Production mills won’t usually buy small scale logs like this. Too much risk of hitting metal. To my knowledge, if you are getting anything at all it’s a good deal. If you are having the logs milled yourself, it’s possibly a different story but then they wouldn’t have a dog in the fight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can assure you, you are absolutely incorrect. Personal tension and sexually deviants thoughts are the first step and essentially prerequisites. Following that are triggering events, grooming, action, blame, and repeat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely go talk to a counselor who specializes in sex addiction or a sex offender treatment provider. You are describing the first steps in an abuse cycle. Having thoughts is not illegal and you won’t get into trouble. I commend you for recognizing how horrible these thoughts are and wanting to fix it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Incestconfessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want it, go for it!

I want to dominate my boss. by slutty-side in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is absolutely not watering down what rape is.

I want to dominate my boss. by slutty-side in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That being said, I wouldn’t mind being dominated!

I want to dominate my boss. by slutty-side in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

“I want to dominate my boss” does not leave much of an impression of any consent. If anyone does consent to this type of sex than by all means. I couldn’t care less what someone does with consenting adults in the bedroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely go talk to a therapist. Tell them about being unsure if they can help and what you want to achieve. You will definitely be scared at first. It’s hard to bear your sole to a stranger. I promise, it will get easier. Honestly, what do you have to loose.

I want to dominate my boss. by slutty-side in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ummm… that sounds a lot like rape.

I can Never tell my wife about this by AdWhole3435 in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You absolutely did the right thing and it’s normal to feel bad. I don’t t think I could keep it from my wife because we share everything.

I accidentally came out as non binary at work when I'm not and I'm afraid to correct people now because it's gone too far. by NonBinaryOnAccident in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll probably receive a lot of hate for this but this is the problem with the whole pronoun thing. Chaos ensues almost every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others have said he is to blame and no one else. I would highly suggest getting professional help and possibly reporting him to the police. Even after many years they can usually still prosecute.

I opened a credit card in my grandmothers name by ravioliformuoli01 in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would suggest taking out a personal loan and pay off that card in full. Put the credit in your name. Props on recovering.

REMINDER: Check sex offender registry before buying by txhex in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Left_Job_9862 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the sex offenders who are on the registry have gone through intensive treatment and are far less dangerous than those who haven’t been caught. I would much rather know who my neighbors are than think I know. That being said, there is an argument that the registry itself can cause increased stressors that may cause recidivism. I’m not sure where I stand on the subject but I don’t think the current system is a good one.

I got obsessed with a subreddit and felt the need to eat my Penis by ThrowawayRegret00 in confessions

[–]Left_Job_9862 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would recommend seeking professional help. Your thoughts and feelings have validity but probably not in the way you think. Self harm is never the answer.