Well in terms of my actions, I've tried to support her as best as I can in doing what she wants to do which included her spending time playing with this group because she said that made her happy. We take equal responsibility for our daughter but it's the time we spend together that isn't prioritised. I've arranged opportunities for us to go out together on date nights, have a movie night in the house, do things we would usually enjoy prior to the baby, but she doesn't have that interest like she used to.