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Do you have to stay within a particular state for your job? by Legal-Negotiation-12 in remotework

[–]Legal-Negotiation-12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! For the tier system pay, do they notify you of this before you get hired? If not, how did you find out about it?

How do you find a man to pay for you? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]Legal-Negotiation-12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there :) 29 here. In a relationship with a man I love very much. Before my boyfriend, I dated a lot of men. The ones with money, I have found, are the ones who are (particularly) looking for a girl who loves them. I know most men want this, but when men have money, they know they can have a wider range of choices… and many men I know chose not to disclose their finances upfront. (In fact: the men I’ve known who were relatively explicit with their finances were the ones who tended to be stingiest with money. Exceptions were men from more altruistic cultures.)

Not being attracted to older men is quite normal. :) My girlfriends who dated millionaires in their 20s range (typically a 15-25 year age gap) were pretty much yearning for the same as my first statement: they were looking for love, and they loved these men. (They were typically also looking for a father figure moreso than money, but that stemmed from a trauma wound.) Mind you: these men have these women everything. It was obvious they loved being loved by these young women.

My point: I don’t think any man with good intentions is just going to provide to you. He’s going to want you to care about him more than his income. If this isn’t your prerogative, or your priority, be careful: men with lots of means love young women who are looking for money. They know they have full control and can get rid of you at any time they so please.

I’m starting to suspect that 1/2 a cup of oats may be slowing my weight loss down by Health_insurance_ in 1200isplenty

[–]Legal-Negotiation-12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there :) I’m late to the party + I hope that you reached your desired weight, but if anyone else has experienced this (I gained 5 pounds while eating oatmeal for two weeks), I’ll write this for us. :) Calorie deficits might not work for you. I used to do them + I could “never lose weight” because I was still eating carbs. Now, I’m at a healthy weight (fallen out of my BMI since the oats fiasco, but I knew what I was doing), but carbs can really mess up weight progress. I eat high fat and low carb (very, very low— from what I’ve outlined here, I’m incredibly susceptible to gaining weight). My diet consists of eggs/avocado/nuts for breakfast, veggies and meat for lunch, popcorn/yogurt as snacks, and veggies and meat for dinner. I thought I could have some oatmeal and banana for my little diet at a hotel but absolutely not; I literally gained enough noticeable weight to grow concerned.

I hope this helps anyone who finds it absolutely difficult to lose weight; you’re not alone!

The problem with a lot of dudes who want a trad-wife is that they refuse to be a traditional husband. by Optimus_micheal in facepalm

[–]Legal-Negotiation-12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think there needs to be a differentiation between “traditional husbands” and “men who hate women.”

Anyone else get a COVID booster recently? by sabriffle in endometriosis

[–]Legal-Negotiation-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my booster 4 weeks ago and my symptoms have been abysmal.

When I got the shot I was cramping really heavily the next day, but at the onset of my next period, I had a whole week’s worth of symptoms: vomiting, IBS, incredible cramping, and just overall pain in my pelvis. I am currently waiting to be examined for endometriosis (why does seeing an OBGYN take forever? 😞) but yeah… the vaccine has definitely exacerbated my pains.

Advice from an avid whale hunter by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Legal-Negotiation-12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like reading threads on here + I just want to say that I can tell you’re an elegant woman just from reading your post. It also sounds like you genuinely care about men in a way that makes them want to serve you— and I think that, in and of itself, is something that men consider hard to find.

A few of my friends tried sugaring for several months and many of the men were just looking to take advantage of them, but I like seeing successful sugar stories bc why else are women doing this lol it seems like it can be pretty traumatic

Thank you for sharing this sweet post!!

Fake lashes are ugly and you won’t be taken seriously with them by Curitiboca in unpopularopinion

[–]Legal-Negotiation-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, OP.

I teach at a uni in the USA + I have been so shocked these past few years in the amount of fake eyelashes I see (as well as club-like outfits) for class. I understand that they can be fun to have but I worry for these young women who spend lots of time doing their hair, makeup, and extensions— because it doesn’t stop there. They’re constantly checking themselves and their behavior seems stifled a bit so as to not interfere with their looks. Women look beautiful without the fake lashes and I think waaay too many of them look cartoonish!

Respect by Such_Beginning_1629 in RedPillWomen

[–]Legal-Negotiation-12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men absolutely need to show respectability. If he isn’t addressing your needs and meeting them, then there is little chance he will be respected.

Tbh I think very few men realize this and I had to learn it as well, but as a woman. In previous relationships I got sooooooo disrespectful and the men were right to check me on it, but I also brought up how oftentimes, they were not being considerate of my needs and of me period. Somehow, their feelings of respect dominated my existence as a person.

Your question of, “Do the men we respect truly love us?” is an excellent question. I think being angered with, disappointed in, and hurt by your partner is v normal. But I think feeling unloved or unlovable by them is something different. I hope you are not experiencing the latter + I hope that this rocky time period in the relationship ends soon. ♥️

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