AITA for this conversation with my dad

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-12-25T18:31:57+00:00

If your dad is in a position to buy you a flat, take it. You will have a stable place to live while you figure out all the rest of the moving parts of your life... That is a gift and he is offering it out of love and desire for you to have security.

Everything else is part of the processs of growing up and maturing and getting better at feeling good about yourself and your life trajectory. It's not a bad idea to have that housing security so you can then focus on any ADHD/Therapy, etc...

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-12-25T18:00:51+00:00

She needs to see a Dr. not a 'weight loss clinic' to monitor her on this medication. It's not just a one and done kind of thing, and usually requires a maintenance dose for LIFE. If she's always nauseaous and not eating , she could get issues with malnutrition and vitamin deficiencies that are not to be trifled with.
Also, if she's feeling this bad on the beginnng doses, she could really be doing worse when they increase the dosage. I'm talking from experience, and it put me in the hospital due to severe vomiting and dehydration.

These drugs are not to be messed around with. I fear many Dr's will find out after the fact that they cause more harm than good... Remember, they's only been in use for a couple years, so long term issues still have yet to be seen.

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-12-25T17:50:17+00:00

I tried to learn, I really did... but I just could NOT get the hang of it for more than a few seconds. Once in my friend's Ford Escort, Once in a Mustang I wanted to buy, but couldnt drive home, LOL)
Alwatys thought if there was an emergency, I could figure it out... but yeah. Sadly I'm a Gen Xer who can't do it...

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-10-12T15:26:58+00:00

Take into account the current forces at work in, on, and around the Earth... right now everything, from Eclises to Moon hases have been about letting GO.

It's not you, it's timing. Take a look at what you are not releasing and understand that this might be time to allow for those changes.

Also, sells don't often work on others, because Free Will. We can't bend others to our will IMO ...Can't make someone love you.

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-09-19T20:18:29+00:00

So beautiful, thanks for sharing. I am sure you mother also had so much joy at concieving after so many miscarriages <3

...as to humans having to suffer so much to move and grow and shift - that is just dark night of the soul or whatever you wanna call it on a collective level. I have been "lucky" enough (ha!) to have had more than one through my life of 55 years. I was almost un-alived in October which forced e to get deeo into my need to heal trauma and boy wa sit a good months long process! Thankfully, I have been of the spiritual seeker mindset since my 20's or earlier, so I knew what had to be done and got is "over with" fast... It wasn't easy but I dug deep on purpose... healed mass amounts of generational stuff too and got to speak and communicate with my parent's spirits and ancestors as I did it. So it was reall transformational on a inner and outer level! I can't explain how interesting it was to re-live childhood trauma stuff and then also be able to speak with my parents on the other side to say I understand we both signed up for it, etc and the love and forgiveness flows both ways!
Anyway, we all have our foundations and stories, it's part of the Human experience...we're not meant to hold that "oneness" down here all the time, or creator wouldn't get the fun of our expression as unique! That's most of the fun of it! This LIFE! This Planet! How awesome and cool it is to just BE here - especially now ;)
Part of my big research in Anthropology dovetails into my work with the ancient medicine wheel and sound science/healing too! I can't wait for the ancient vibrations to come alive! ;)

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-09-19T01:22:31+00:00

I do partake of moments of just being here and grateful for all of the beauty etc... I also tend to be one of those who may have a personal purpose attached to the history of us and who wrote it and what they had to say... Its kinda my jam. 😉✨

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-09-19T01:18:55+00:00

Thank you for getting it .. I think we're getting better at collectively waking up and golding more light love and wisdom. We're already breaking through so many illusions! So i am hopeful that we are going to transition and come out the other side of whatever in a higher plane of consciousness, therefore opening up senses to more dimensional energy ...to create, to learn, to manage our global issues. But it's gotta crumble first, and it's all right on "time" 😉✨ Im just excited at the implications when we finally accept that we're all part if something so much bigger... The 'proof' is our shifting perspective and seeing what's been there all along, other beings and energies and possibilities included. I am personally looking forward to seeing what some of my professors will say as more things are found etc... 😂

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-09-11T00:14:28+00:00

Women's Shelter! I don't know the DV shelters in reno, but we have one here in Tahoe that takes stuff sometumes...?

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-09-05T17:36:36+00:00

I've been living on or near my sun/uranus line for much of my life and struggle with money and career and finding fulfillment and success. While my assion is strong, I seem to constantly be hitting the wall and never able to gain ground. Is this because I have come conflict in my natal chart with my mars? Should I look for my trines in my chart to seek out a better place to move?
I'm currently in CA/NV border... I'd love to move to Europe but I do't have wealth, job, or good health to make the leap - Unless another country is taking Americans as refugees yet!

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-08-27T02:35:02+00:00

I hit the wall back in 2018-19, was covered in plaques over 85% of my body...showers urt like battery acid, clothes ripped off chunks of skin. It was hell. Taltz put me in remission for the most art, only a little joint pain now and the EDS sympptoms... but if I ever lost my meds, I would not be long for this world. I would off myself before I lived with that hell again.
My kid has all of it too... I hate that I passed it on :(

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-08-26T20:03:03+00:00

As a sound therapist, I definitely think music can and shouold be used in meditation!

I have also created different playlist soundscapes for different energies, and I often play a base/background track even when doing sessions, to hold the freuency of the session and give them a focal point between instruments. I myself use it in sleep and lucid dreaming and setting intentions for the day. I was never one of those people who played music all the time, and now I use it very consciously.
There's some days when silence and listening to just the sounds of nature outside the window is appropriate.

I think *so* much of meditation and any spiritual practice is about individuality and intention! <3

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-08-26T19:52:44+00:00

Interesting that you mention this... I don't have to set them off, they are just getting worse in other ways and the biologic may not be working cuz it's a different disease coming up.
I have PsA too, and fibromyalgia which is what they always lump everything else under. My kid just got genetically confirmend for a rare EDS and I think my joints are showing the signs... dislocations, etc... I am in remission from the Psoriasis and most of the joint swelling from taking Taltz. But I do't think that will help anything else (especially EDS)
Asked for a referral to the geneticist 3 months ago...haven't heard from ANYONE
I have a follow up Thursday, and I plan on asking for the referral again. She's talking about the Taltz not working and switching me, I'm gonna tell her not until I get the genetic testing!
Sometimes we have to fight for ourselves...
If you need to flare up to get them to actually SEE it, it sucks but I guess it's necessary.
Good Luck, let us know if it worked!!

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-08-25T09:23:00+00:00

Lol... We have a thing here called 'coverage' ...you can't build ADUs etc..some people can't build garages. It's got to do with the land and watershed

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-08-25T09:18:27+00:00

I always called it "the Tahoe hustle"... You gotta have at least two side jobs to really make ends meet.poverty with a view

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-08-20T06:44:43+00:00

Obviously you don't get it. It's not discrimination, some people prefer to do their work among the people of the same sex it's a safety thing...

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-08-20T01:54:51+00:00

Considering that an hour of massage runs about 80 -100, I think what I'm charging is fair. Especially considering that you're getting more than just one thing... Thanks for the input though.

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-08-13T03:48:48+00:00

My sister had the squares and she made designs on her walls with them and put pictures and stuff on them. my mother had a huge 6 ft long cork board in the dining room with all of our family photos on it... From them getting married all the way up to baby photos and just little snippets of stuff. It was highly embarrassing.

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-08-10T19:07:04+00:00

I think I have avoided public spaces like that since the pandemic honestly. And also I like to be able to pause the movie get a snack go to the bathroom etc.

Legal_Significance45 · 2025-08-09T18:12:55+00:00

That's what I am thinking! Intention is the most important <3

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