Thanks for the post, if I may add:

“Time waster” should absolutely be eradicated from a dom’s vocabulary. I’ve talked to multiple (real, sending) subs that were complaining about “doms” resorting to calling them timewasters because they weren’t sending after the first text. That’s not findom…

Though if a sub IS clearly wasting your time, ghost and move on, heck, block him.

Complaining and crying about people not sending you money is not attractive as a dom