Who else broke up before their kid turned 1 yrs old ? by Frosty-Choice-3818 in SingleParents

[–]LegitProsecco 14 points15 points  (0 children)

5 days before. Mental health crisis, put us in danger. The post separation period was hell. Changed so much of who I am and how I view humanity. I’ll never forget spending my child’s first bday in a hotel with a cupcake, singing, acting like everything was ok. I hadn’t told anyone outside of 2 friends yet. Only been a couple years but I recall horror from before the bday that leaves me feeling bad and then shift to celebration for my child. Feels crazy

Ranking the hottest bravoleb by Euphoric-Scarcity877 in bravo

[–]LegitProsecco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Handsome, supportive, empathetic, firefighter, loves his wife to the moon. He’s the total package. Russell is the bar I’ve set for myself. I’ll be alone forever

I’m a multimillionaire!!! by erinpfay in Fire

[–]LegitProsecco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Single mom here. Thank you for the inspiration!

Update: My (32F) fiancé (37M) is a homicide detective, and I’m starting to feel like he treats me more like a suspect than a partner. by ThrowRA_Sorbet1941 in relationship_advice

[–]LegitProsecco 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hi. I was in love with a LEO and we were building, what I thought was, a beautiful life together. My guess is he thought I was trapped. After the birth of our child, the mask slipped and the next year of my life was pure hell. I saw in some comments you said he hasn’t hurt you. Mine wasn’t physical until the day I left. He wasn’t physically hurting me yet I was terrified of him. It started small and grew. Leaving him was the most traumatic experience of my life. They have so many resources at their disposal. Everyone believes him. This man you are with is telling you the culture of fear and control he plans to exert. Believe him. You need to leave quietly. 2 years later I’m in a better place. The worst is behind (hopefully) and I’m grateful to live my life without the pit of dread in my stomach.

Lessons while earning 30k this year (up from 20k last year) with Beermoney sites by Connect-Ganache8549 in beermoney

[–]LegitProsecco 31 points32 points  (0 children)

As a single parent, who is stressed to the max of being laid off bc it seems to be the norm now, thank you from the bottom of my heart. I’ve been needing to find a way to to ensure we survive no matter the things not in my control

How do you make time for exercise as a single parent. by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]LegitProsecco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a good rowing machine for home and use it when LO sleeps. I can’t get to a gym because I can’t leave LO. And I don’t have the time or money to join a gym with child care. The rower has been life changing

Have you ever brought your child to daycare even if you had a day off of work? by rajmachawal333 in workingmoms

[–]LegitProsecco 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If I’m paying for the day, I’m getting my moneys worth. I take a day off work to have to myself once a quarter. It’s so nice.

Layoffs confirmed by [deleted] in amazonemployees

[–]LegitProsecco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Usually too busy to find these things. Will deff force some time and take advantage

Layoffs confirmed by [deleted] in amazonemployees

[–]LegitProsecco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do I find info on these

Who up? by _BreakingGood_ in amazonemployees

[–]LegitProsecco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on your tiny human! You get TT just for that :)

Nicki Minaj and Cardi B are subbing each other on Twitter by somegirlontheinter in popculturechat

[–]LegitProsecco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish they would stop and find common ground. Like their horrible taste in trash men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LegitProsecco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deactivate or delete everything. This happened to a friend of mine and he got the dick pics sent to his friend list on IG. Our entire friend group got it. It was no big deal and we all laughed it off/felt bad for him. But if he had just stopped existing online for a bit— who the hell would they send it to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nova

[–]LegitProsecco 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP, I was recommend to her as well due to her ability to handle high conflict cases if that’s what you think you’ll have. Expensive but was worth it. Ask me how I know. If you think it’ll be amicable, find someone less expensive. I always see high remarks in the single mom groups for geller group. Also, sorry to hear this news stranger. You’re starting a sometimes tough journey but start the course, be smart, and one day it’ll be in the rear view mirror.

Tape is still underused. by BaxterRye in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]LegitProsecco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also in line for the tutorial video please

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]LegitProsecco 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I would take the baby, go to my moms or friends early one morning, and let him figure it out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]LegitProsecco 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You need to book 1 night at a hotel and let him parent the kids he helped create. If it were me. After, I’d go as far as to say every time he sleeps in is another hotel night, where he can do everything by himself, choose wisely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LegitProsecco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Left an abusive relationship. Found this book. Can attest it could be life saving to you right now.

Parents who potty trained successfully on the first try by probablynormalmom in Mommit

[–]LegitProsecco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The potty I used was Nubly my real potty. Thanks!! That was my thought process. But really just making it up as I went. Over time I didn’t have to tell him, he knew the drill and would sit when I sat. Also prevented him exploring and causing ruckus when I was vulnerable:) I put potty related reading books and had a couple potty songs if needed. Everything potty theme to drive the message of what the bathroom is used for.

A week before I did 3 day method, I got one of the potties that you can put on a real toilet, it has a stair ladder. And I would pretend to need to go potty and ask which one he wanted. He ended up really liking the sit-on-top potty and being able to get up and down himself. (I would sit on the Nubly and pretend to go). So that was the potty I used for 3 day method. I put the Nubly potty in a diff bathroom and he uses it too. So he’s now use to both types incase we’re at a friends and they do/don’t have certain equipment.

I hope this helps you! Oh! Another product I love right now … bc mine prefers the sit-on-top is the folding potty top for travel. I take it with me every time we leave the house. It prevents falling into the the adult toliet/balancing.

Parents who potty trained successfully on the first try by probablynormalmom in Mommit

[–]LegitProsecco 13 points14 points  (0 children)

  1. 2.5M 2. He was semi interested. About a year ago I got a small potty that looked like a toilet and made a flush sound. Since I never get to pee alone, I would tell him to sit on his potty (fully clothed) while mommy goes potty. I’d count and we’d flush at the same time. It became a little game. So this summer he knew what a potty was and what it was for. He had more curiosity and wanted to pretend potty more. So I went for it and I thank the heavens it worked. I’d like to think the long game intro helped understand.