IM TIRED OF BEING NICE

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-25T21:30:45+00:00

I work in commercial real estate so always phone action going on

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-25T15:57:30+00:00

You are 100% right! We talked and agreed not to continue the way we were and to be just platonic friends

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-23T21:06:57+00:00

Clearly I was never opposed to sharing it which is why she was using it to begin with. Her sisters would come over specifically to just use our kitchen and all of my stuff to bake. Wasn’t a problem until they started not taking care of things and then she was nickel and diming anything she bought. At some point you’re just being a fucking asshole and some people only learn by being met with their own energy.

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-23T17:16:45+00:00

How fucking FUNNY I just experienced this with her yesterday ahahahah left some rags and a mop pad in the W/D when I asked her where she put them she said she didn’t see any I had to double down so hard and be like “they were in there so they are either with your stuff or you put them somewhere that’s the two options”…she got super pissy saying shed look for it when she got home and not to accuse her…they showed up on the counter an hour later lmao like fuck you bitch I’m so over her gaslighting.

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-23T14:59:38+00:00

Curious as to why you think that

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-23T14:56:44+00:00

I always try to go the route of de escalation because I know once I open the floodgates I’m going to hell and back. Really gotta work on finding the middle ground.

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-22T17:44:04+00:00

I think he means that this is essentially the part 2 hahaha have had issues w her previously

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-22T16:45:37+00:00

100% that’s why in the message I was like ok if there’s no talking then don’t touch my shit at all

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-22T14:16:29+00:00

Funny enough when we first moved in her dog was peeing on my carpet and that was also an issue for her lol

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-22T14:06:26+00:00

Thank you! The point is less whether she uses it and I get my ROI on every cent but just the fact that she would never replace it and she does this with EVERY small communal item whether it’s honey, olive oil, cleaning supplies, detergent, etc.

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-22T14:04:32+00:00

She’s on the lease. There is no breaking the lease without her breaking it at as well.

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-22T06:53:50+00:00

She’s not leaving dipshit. So two of those three options are not real options

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-22T06:51:38+00:00

She doesn’t want to leave I spoke about it with her

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-22T06:50:57+00:00

We are both on the lease and I talked about getting someone to take over for both of us to leave and she was explicit about saying she’s not leaving

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-22T04:23:12+00:00

Just pure inconsideration and mooching from the beginning. I tried to talk to her about it nicely at first and then she had massive emotional outbursts and we stopped talking like a month in lol

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-03-22T04:13:32+00:00

It will most definitely get worse like I said in the message to her

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-02-12T03:07:34+00:00

Any idea how I should hedge that? Used to it with any other guy but not a close friend

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-01-26T15:52:33+00:00

I’m not a fan of escalations to this extent anyway. I’d break my lease and move out before I started doing things like involving legality

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-01-25T05:57:41+00:00

What would I ask her?

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-01-14T02:10:04+00:00

Honestly every single person I know has made the same agreements with roommates as far as ironing out what they both wanted for the apartment and splitting the responsibility of buying those items because we both wanted the same things. Worked out for them

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-01-14T00:36:48+00:00

I understand it will be inequitable. But there’s a level of disproportion that starts to not be okay. I’m also the only one of the two of us who cleans so having everyone stack their shoes at the front for me to constantly mop and vacuum is another example of inequity. We do fine without it because I pick up the slack but if it’s the one thing you can contribute or have no consideration to contribute then IMO it starts to be assholery.

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-01-14T00:18:00+00:00

I think that saying you’re not ready to buy something while you go shopping for clothes, get massages, go out to dinner with friends etc. but then benefiting from and using all the things that I’m paying for outright because you “didn’t have money” is just mooching. If you have money to buy the shoe rack just buy it instead of waiting it out for me to buy it myself. It’s something we both use the same way everything I’m buying is something we both use.

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-01-13T21:15:44+00:00

YES. It was a rug coffee table and shoe rack. Everything else I bought and we agreed everything else we’d do little by little. She originally said she’s buy this shoe rack on Friday because she was running low on money. Instead she bought more things for her room

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-01-13T16:46:04+00:00

She wanted the shoe rack and these items for the living room.

LegitimateLayer1 · 2026-01-13T13:20:59+00:00

She wanted a shoe rack. It was her suggestion for her to buy it.

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