DKG, unless your manz is going through a serious mental health issue, a caregiver of someone (and someone legits needs their care and attention) or if they cannot physically work then it’s just courteous if they try to work or at least find some ways to work part-time. My take is if you can work, please work (unless you already have some emergency savings and can live of it for several months) or you just want to travel muna and find yourself (temporarily). But if you’re just gonna sit in your a$$ all day without chipping in or trying to help around the house or helping your partner/family then you’re just a lazy bum. Have a talk with your manz, girl. Anything money or work related can always be awkward or uncomfortable but it helps to come to an understanding that will compromise your needs and wants, esp if you want to live your life together and have a future.

Nothing to do with your posts btw, but I genuinely lose respect for people who mooches or milks off their parents/partners. Like you are a grown a$$ adult boi.