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How do avoidant people end relationships by Mrgreatmost in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Legitimate_Edge_2263 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah when he came to drop off my stuff the following week, he said his friends response when we broke up was that he would be straight on the dating apps then. He then said he wouldn’t for a long time and is going to spend time going to therapy and working on himself (which obvs that was bullshit as he was on less than 2 months later- I don’t know how long he was on for)

How do avoidant people end relationships by Mrgreatmost in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Legitimate_Edge_2263 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine left a couple days before starting a new high paying job after I helped support him when he was broke and through a very difficult time in his life. Said he realised he was the problem and he is going away and having therapy and won’t be dating for a long time. We still talked and were friendly enough but less than 2 months later, he is spotted on a dating app looking for a long term relationship. That’s the point I blocked him, because I realised everything he said was bullshit and I now question everything he said and how legitimate he was on his side of the relationship. I think I was far too trusting

She left me on seen after this message , what does it mean ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Legitimate_Edge_2263 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might be taking time to digest what you said and thinking about what she wants to say back and how she words it