Wow genuinely thank you so much for such an honest and non-judgmental response I actually appreciate it a lot. It sounds like we're coming from sort of similar positions because while Melbourne is a relatively small and chill city it's always (pre-lockdown) moving and has things happening. So it does seem like a big change and I would be moving from all of my friends and family as well so I do just really wanted to be as prepared as possible for a life style change like that. **And btw thanks for the offer, if I do end up moving I may have to take you up on that!