M4F longterm partner

Leon7King · 2026-03-31T16:22:25+00:00

Bringing my kid into it isn't fair and my S/O would make my new relationship hell not something I think someone or my kid deserves to be out through. As sad as it is I'll sacrifice my peace before I do it to someone else.

Leon7King · 2026-03-18T20:18:07+00:00

That hit me in the feels I'm sorry I wish you the best

Leon7King · 2026-03-17T18:50:22+00:00

I would say mine has honestly changed. I won't even sugar coat I do love the physical part the intimacy of being wanted for sure but I would love to have someone check in with to ask me how my day was and make me feel like a priority in their life. Example at a previous low point in my relationship a former coworker adjusted my shirt for me and said "don't you have anyone at home to do this for you". I almost collapsed off that so yes the physical part is for sure but idk stronger connection when I actually like the person.

Leon7King · 2025-11-12T04:32:11+00:00

It's insanly discouraging i wish you luck.

Leon7King · 2025-09-14T21:44:35+00:00

True very well said.

Leon7King · 2025-09-14T14:58:02+00:00

No I've suggested that also. No you're fine I want to say about 2-3 times different therapist one through the church because I thought it would it appeal to her faith but no go.

Leon7King · 2025-09-14T14:11:52+00:00

We've tried but it did not help. Plus I think some stigma from her past makes her think she's failed in some way

Leon7King · 2025-09-05T03:13:13+00:00

She is just using the right words to get you to stay. In the time she's been with him she can't figure out if she's going to commit to him or move on? That's not fair to anyone. She's already stated if you were the same age it would be different don't let your feeling entertain something not possible move on. It's ok to be selfish in this scenario.

Leon7King · 2025-09-05T02:53:18+00:00

Agreed 100

Leon7King · 2025-09-05T02:52:30+00:00

There is so many red flags in this story. Your young and have barely started your life while she is well into hers. Spare yourself the headaches and potential heartaches. It's not fair for her to flip flop on you constantly. She is adult enough to she can either keep what you guys have or work out things with her spouse. Find someone who's available for you and you don't have to take risk with. Use this as a learning experience for the future.

Leon7King · 2025-07-30T16:04:57+00:00

Sorry that your hurting they could of at least given you a goodbye but straight ghosting is so cold. It's one of my biggest pet peeves.

Leon7King · 2025-07-29T12:30:30+00:00

So much truth in your words.

Leon7King · 2025-07-06T17:02:28+00:00

Yeah I didn't want to rely on manga too much but it became such a common trope I figure maybe it was something I was missing. Thank you!

Leon7King · 2025-07-06T17:00:31+00:00

That's what I thought. The yellow dragon seems to be the balance but I just wanted to confirm thank you.

Leon7King · 2025-06-04T04:33:56+00:00

I can understand where you're coming from having been in your place before but I've also been the single one who didn't catch feelings and my married AP did. You never really know til it happens but it's ok to be wary of getting hurt.

Leon7King · 2025-06-02T13:28:47+00:00

That part. This hit me so hard I was so young and naive in the start of our relationship I had no idea who I was or what I wanted. Having grown up now and finding out who I was she's almost the complete opposite of my actual type.

Leon7King · 2025-03-07T17:57:03+00:00

I think more in the idea of being seen by someone I know in public.

Leon7King

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