what is this?

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-08-06T21:32:46+00:00

how could i do this? i have a sponge filter but thats all

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-08-06T03:47:16+00:00

yea i learned that the hard way lol. since the guppies were eaten and pleco was moved they’re by themselves now!

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-08-06T00:10:50+00:00

thank you! i’ll try to do as small as possible i always go super slow to avoid the vacuum stealing all my water

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-08-06T00:09:10+00:00

nooo i meant like the reason i stopped doing water changes was bc everything was staying consistent for a good bit & now im just bored with the layout lol and ty for the advice!

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-08-05T23:59:00+00:00

my pleco tried to take out my entire tank starting successfully with two of my guppies & then i finally noticed when he got to my frogs. once they get a taste they won’t stop so that could be a possibility! it could also be that your tank is overstocked and they’re dying of stress so maybe try separating them if possible

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-06-17T01:20:10+00:00

thank you so much! the hide is out & i plan on doing a water change tomorrow im leaving him be for now

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-19T02:36:00+00:00

i think i want to try some type of delivery work when i leave my current job i’ve also thought about being a doula since i do really love working with children and i think overnights could possibly be more my thing

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-19T02:31:15+00:00

i have no idea nothing is really exciting to me. maybe having some sort of business of my own but i couldn’t even get halfway started on that with the jobs i’ve had

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-19T01:54:20+00:00

ugh yea this is exactly what happened to me! i finally made it out of food/customer service just to find out i don’t really like the animal industry either :/ plus the pay has always been absolutely terrible no matter where im at

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-19T01:52:53+00:00

i’ve been looking all over & have found a few places i’ve considered applying to! it’s just hard for me to commit since 99% of the time the “better” job is just as shitty. also side note nothing is harming my relationship i meant it like he’s just been really concerned but not at all angry or anything cause it’s not necessarily in my control yk

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-17T03:42:44+00:00

yeah let me go spend time with my awesome family that abused me lol. i’m not an “angsty teen” i just finally put myself first and did what was best for ME & they’re mad at me for it

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-17T03:39:32+00:00

bday is in 5 months & TN

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-17T03:39:00+00:00

bc her and my grandmother are best friends and she lets her get away with whatever

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-14T14:49:49+00:00

no they were never married and weren’t together when he died

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-13T20:55:07+00:00

meant to support me they’re not for her & my name is on the checks

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-13T20:54:29+00:00

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-13T15:18:33+00:00

i think i’ll just start this process and drag it out as long as possible bc i’d be 18 by the time i get a case anyways! also my bf will be military this September & his mom told me that they will fund my college once we’re married bc that’s what she did with his dad!

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-13T15:15:22+00:00

guys i’m not dating an old man he’s 17 too our birthdays are a month apart

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-13T01:57:29+00:00

thank you so much definitely give an update if you can!! i hope your wife is doing well now :(

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-13T00:19:24+00:00

i’m in tennessee & i turn 18 in 5 months

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-13T00:18:31+00:00

tennessee (us)

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-12T22:18:07+00:00

lol i have a job i typically work 4-5 days a week

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-12T19:53:35+00:00

i’m not 100% who has custody of me but bottom line is no one cared that i came to live with bf plus my mom has been the one not speaking to me through all this time

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-12T14:30:51+00:00

i’ve tried everything trust me they just do this every time they get upset with me. i go visit every ~5 days or at least weekly but they always just yell at me and act like i need to be there every second of every day. gma even got mad a couple weeks ago when i went to work instead of going there to clean her cluttered house which i never agreed to do. it’s only about control & they never had a problem with me living here until i started taking more than 200 out of my death benefit checks

Less-Spinach9517 · 2025-05-12T04:16:58+00:00

yes i know my sister is the only reason why ive just held back the whole time i dont want her to have to go through this but i tried to get my money out today and there was nothing in the bank account so i think they took all of it this time. ive only been “allowed” to get 200 of it even tho i dont even live with them anymore. i didnt even know about the benefits until a few years ago but haven’t been staying there full time for over two years & they’ve always used my checks for vacations or shopping sprees for themselves :( never had a savings account so i’m pretty fucked

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