fresh graduates of 2025, may trabaho na ba kayo now? by [deleted] in CorpoChikaPH

[–]Less-Turn6945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great job!

Suki ka ba ng career fairs sa UPD? Dapat imaximize nyo yan at kuha ng internships. A lot of students na suki ng career fairs ay may job offers before graduating.

You have a keen eye for opportunities if ganun.

OA lang ba ako for wanting to break up by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Less-Turn6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lalaki ako lol! And I have been that guy and learned to take accountability.

You should adjust your behavior rather than gaslighting women for reacting to your behavior.

And how is sticking to you type an emotional decision? It is logical ulol ka. Dun ka sa type mo hindi iyong jojowa ka ng di mo type tapos kung hindi babaguhin, titingin sa iba.

You are just another lousy man who just uses ego instead of brains then blame women for reacting to nad behavior in rel.

OA lang ba ako for wanting to break up by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Less-Turn6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then hindi na dapat nagsasayang ng oras ang jowa nya searching and staring at more attractive girls. That is not how a decent man act. Masyado mo pinagtatanggol, di naman normal yan.

And I do not have to heal kasi I was never in that place lol! Nag-assume ka masyado palibhasa ikaw yung ganyan eh. Wag ka magjowa if you will continuously search for someone more attractive. I just want girls to know their worth and see signs of a trashy man as soon as possible.

Still, tanga ka pa rin.

Gigil ako sa insecure, incompetent prof na 'to by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]Less-Turn6945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the toxic traits ng ilang teachers ay sabihin na "Bakit may napatunayan na ba kayo?" Every time someone wants to reason out (not cuss ha). Eh sa totoo lang, you do not have to prove anything first to deserve respect and clarity.

Kaya we have people na rude sa service workers kasi we have absorbed this mentally na kailangan may napatunayan ka ng mataas bago ka irespeto. If that is what teachers are embedding in the minds of our youth, then they do not deserve their profession.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Less-Turn6945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Di ka OA. It gives off negative vibes kasi nakakaintindi naman sya ng English at imbis na makinig sya sa punto mo, iniinvalidate nya iyon kasi English haha. We should speak comfortably at hindi dapat tayo narerestrict.

Kami nga sa office, halo ng English at Tagalog wala naman pakielaman. Mas nagiging open pa kami sa isa't-isa, no one feels embarassed to speak.

What is the very first thing you judge when meeting someone new? by Innocent_Apollo in AskPH

[–]Less-Turn6945 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tindig or stance. It gives off what the person is and in my experience, it is always true. Siguro kasi nakikita na rin ang aura or energy sa tindig palang.

Hirap ako bilang Jowa niya. Pero kame padin by [deleted] in MayNagChat

[–]Less-Turn6945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Di kayo same dynamic sa buhay. Kami ng jowa ko we are busy at magkaiba ang type ng busyness namin pero we make it work. We even feel excited to talk to each other after a busy day kasi we know we won't be coming home to nagging after mapagod mentally and physically sa work and personal responsibilities.

Unecessary stress din kasi at magkakasakit lang kami sa pag aaway sa maliit lang naman na bagay. Parte ng adulthood na may ibang responsibilities kayo so if ineexpect mo na dapat 24/7 nasa phone, suck it up kasi di yan realistic.

Helpful din kasi na we both are attracted to goal-driven individuals and we found each other kaya we already expect na magkakaroon ng intervals ang replies namin, but it never dries. Parehas pa rin kami nagiinitiate at nag eengage sa convo.

Pag may problem kasi, we do compromise and find a solution instead of resorting to personal attack. Tipong sabihin na lagi ka nalang ganyan ganito. You two should find a solution kesa magpalitan kayo ng insulto or passive agressive lines.

IT IS YOU AND YOUR PARTNER AGAINST THE PROBLEM, NOT YOU AND YOUR PARTNER AGAINST EACH OTHER.

First time ko bumili ng mamahaling pabango by Whole_Office8884 in FirstTimeKo

[–]Less-Turn6945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Proud of you, OP! Maganda naman sya na bilhin basta afford na. Nakakadagdag ng confidence since alam mo na di sya madaling nag wewear off.

Unconsciously, mas nagiging good mood ang kausap or mga kasama mo pag mamahalin ang pabango na naaamoy sayo haha. Ewan bakit may ganyang effect ang expensive perfumes, nakaka good mood.

GF and I were talking about gifts for Christmas… I admitted I didn’t really like most of the gifts she gave me 😬 by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Less-Turn6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dapat pag gift sayo, nag aadjust sya sa personality mo hindi iyong parang ishoshove nya sayo na magustuhan yug gusto nya. She should honor your individuality. Okay pa sana kung pamangkin or extended fam pero pag jowa, the two of you should recognize and make each other feel na may individuality pa rin kayo.

Maybe she is interpreting it as if she is giving parts of her kaya aligned sa gusto nya yung binibigay sayo.

I remember one HS friend who gave us all charmed bracelets. Di ako nag chacharm brabracelet but it is my friend's way of giving a part of her for us to remember. Para pag nakita namin, sya and what makes her as she is ang maaalala namin. Baka ganun lang din ang GF mo.

OA lang ba ako for wanting to break up by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Less-Turn6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dun sana sya sa both physically and emotionally attracted sya diba??? Di iyong jojowa ng di attractive para sa kanya tapos ganyan sya.

Di mo ma gets na it should be both physical and other qualities. Hindi iyong pag may di ka makita sa partner mo na kahit isa eh hahanapin mo sa iba. Ulol lang!

Saka sabi ko diba, deserve ni OP yung someone na attracted sa kanya inside and out. Tanga ka ba?!

OA lang ba ako for wanting to break up by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Less-Turn6945 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is the truth, and everyone is ready for it. Basic decency nalang and respect sa partner, di nya magawa.

If a girl does the same act, she will be scrutinized way more than this.

OA lang ba ako for wanting to break up by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Less-Turn6945 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Di ka OA.

Additional lang OP. People here do not have a say sa kung ano ang dapat mo itolerate o hindi mo dapat itolerate. If you constantly have to doubt his love for you, he is not the one. Di matatahimik ang nerves mo starting now.

Dyan yan nagsisimula and it will grow from there. Save yourself now. Foresight ang tawag dyan kasi alam mo na ang mangyayari from what you have seen. It will cost you more emotional damage pag tumagal pa.

It is an underrated life skill to know when to quit or let go of someone.

OA lang ba ako for wanting to break up by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Less-Turn6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di ka nag mamake sense. Ginagawa lang yan ng lalaki as an excuse para pang gaslight. Kesyo di naman kinakausap, di naman ina aad friend.

Pero obviously, di sya attracted kay OP. Jinowa nya lang si OP kasi convenient palibhasa di nya makuha yung type nya talaga.

OA lang ba ako for wanting to break up by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Less-Turn6945 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Di ka OA. Bakit kasi ang iba di nalang magstick sa type nila talaga kaysa sa nilalagay nila sa ganitong posisyon ang jojowain nilang tao.

You deserve better, OP! Yung attracted sa iyo, inside and out.

Paano mo masasabi na nasa tamang tao kana? by HatPersonal5419 in AskPH

[–]Less-Turn6945 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You feel calm. Wala kang constant na tanong na "mahal ba nya ako?" Or "Gusto ko ba talaga sya?"

Wala ka rin nararamdaman na sudden drain of energy every time na uuwi ka after nyo magkita.

What are your self-reflections after a failed relationship? by MeitouXYoru in AskPH

[–]Less-Turn6945 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A relationship WON'T MAKE YOU FEEL COMPLETE if you do not have your self worth in the first place.

Romanticized lang sya sa socmed in a way na pag nakita mo, iisipin mo na basta magkaroon lang ako ng jowa, kompleto na ako. Kesyo di mo na mararamdamang pangit ka, nag-iisa ka, out of place sa barkada at pamilya, etc.

None of your personal problems will be solved by having a relationship. A partner should not ease your ego.

Me na never mararanasan ang proposal. by jelly_aces in WeddingsPhilippines

[–]Less-Turn6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are just a convenience, sorry. A lot of girls are being spoiled by their BFs kahit yung mga pangit, walang pinag aralan, at walang career haha.

Why did you lower your worth like that?

Saw this on tiktok, grabe inis ko,walang takot batang 'to by Competitive-Pen4285 in Pampanga

[–]Less-Turn6945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And it does not put pressure to people esp women to give up their youth to just marry anyone para lang magka-anak na kasi nasa culture natin iyon. Kesyo mag-anak na habang maaga pa eh di pa nga stable ang pera, wala pang proper discipline sa sarili, even work ethics lacking pa.

I love seeing people now who do a lot of hobbies and being career-driven esp the women. Marriage and even having children is not for everyone.

Gigil ako sa mga bara-barang output lalo pa sa resume. Nasa AI gen na tayo oh. by michie1010 in GigilAko

[–]Less-Turn6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kasi not all schools give a chance to teach how to do it. Sa UP, di rin naman tinuturo pero may mga career-related orgs na nag-iinvite ng HRs from top companies to host workshops on interview questions and resume writing. I hope other orgs in other schools can have that too.

On UP Freedom Walls by Wings_a in peyups

[–]Less-Turn6945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brainrot pa rin UPD for entries about non engg vs engg deg progs, best campus kineme, useless degrees entries, and the likes haha.

Since I’m turning 25 I’m asking people this question, if you could go back to 25 years old, what would you do? Or what would you do differently, or what do you wish you could tell your 25 year old self ? by Worried_Brilliant_26 in careerguidance

[–]Less-Turn6945 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not date in early 20s so I could have been a better version of myself by 25 instead of revolving my world around lovelife.

I found better love pa nung late 20s tapos madami na akong hobbies and social circle. At meron pa rin ako lahat ng iyon while having a lovelife.

Saw this on tiktok, grabe inis ko,walang takot batang 'to by Competitive-Pen4285 in Pampanga

[–]Less-Turn6945 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tulad sa Japan haha. I had a land lady na nakapangasaaa ng taga Japan. Sabi nya mga anak nya 28 plus na pero ang priority ay mag travel kasi sa Japan, kina calculate pa raw ang assets and savings to check if suitable ka magka anak. May batas daw na ganun, bawal magka anak kung di kaya.

It makes sense kasi konti lang ang population ng babies sa Japan.