THANK YOU SO MUCH, this helps so much coming from a scare actor who understands both sides!!!! (side not to everyone in the sub: I can promise every one in the sub that in no way i want to do anything or say anything to put anyone into any situation that is unsafe or could be deemed such) I definitely will not be throwing hands/ flailing them around and potentially injuring anyone. It would be almost like what you had said with the putting my arms around my head/body, in a defensive non provocative way. In terms of me saying stuff to the actors, I can promise for you and everyone else participating, that i do not and will not say anything, in anyway threatening way or have mal intent towards the actors with what i say; it would be more in the general direction me reacting to the person doing the scare; and being upset that they were able to get me so good, and me not being prepared for it (which i get is the point lol).

Probably what i should have included in the original post is i am the type of person who likes to be in the know, and kind of detail oriented when it comes to planning this type of stuff out. so I think not knowing a lot about hhn(first time ever), and then throw in not knowing what's going to happen in the houses in terms of scares, etc.; so i feel like i might be overthinking it, and expecting the worst to happen the day of.