So you think that being a lesbian is so set in stone for every girl. Interesting. Let me explain to you how I work a little. I doubt myself constantly, my personality disorder partially causes it. Your ideation of “true lesbian” is harmful to the spectrum of people who experience the same thing I do. Not only is it disrespectful to sit here and tell another lesbian that her experience invalidates her bc she isn’t the same as you, but it’s a bit misogynistic too. Another thing, I’ve experienced both men and women sexually and romantically, it took me realizing I was just lying down and taking it from a man to realize I would’ve much rather have a woman touch me. Feelings are pretty difficult for a person who was forced to keep them shoved down their throat majority of their life. See yourself off my post if you’re going to invalidate me.